7 Signs a Girl is Flirting with You – She’s interested!
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Gentlemen, today we’re sharing with you the 7 signs a girl is flirting with you… and not just being friendly. Whether it’s because she’s keeping you on your toes or it’s just kinda hard to tell, the uncertainty of not knowing that a girl likes you can be enough to keep you up at night.
And because we want the signs to be crystal clear, we’re also sharing the #1 sign that she’s not being flirty, she’s not being friendly, she’s just not that into you.
Alright, let’s dive in.
7 Signs A Girl Is Flirting With You - Is She Flirting Or Just Being Friendly (POWERFUL Signals)
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7 Signs She’s Flirting with You and Not Just Being Friendly
Here are the 7 signs a girl is flirting with you:
7. OMG Staaaaaahhhhp!
If you’ve heard that noise before, congratulations!
You’ve learned how to be a fun person to be around. If you haven’t heard it before, it’s time to learn some jokes and think quicker on your feet. Because it’s no secret that girls love to laugh.
And if she’s laughing so much with you that she struggles to speak normally… She doesn’t want you to stop at all. It means she’s having the time of her life. And she wants to keep feeling that way.
6. She’s Kind of a Jerk
Generally when you meet a new person, you’re supposed to be nice to them, right?
Well not all girls like to play that way. Especially if they think you’re cute. That’s because if a girl is continually giving you a hard time about anything, whether it be your favorite shirt, your hair, or some embarrassing thing you said 15 minutes ago… she’s only teasing you and you shouldn’t take it personally.
Because remember… Teasing is a cornerstone of flirting…
So as long as she’s not being hurtful, eat it up and dish it right back to her. Because she’s probably just looking for a witty challenger.
5. She’s Got Hands!
As you may already know, hand placement is another sign a girl is flirting with you. Girls (not just the blind ones) use their hands to flirt with you by lightly pushing you when you’re being silly, or they adjust their hair a little too often and mimic whatever you’re doing.
On the other hand… a firm pat on the back or an impressive high five, most likely indicates she’s just being friendly towards you.
The key thing to remember when trying to figure out if her touch (or look) is flirty, is that context matters.
So if it’s complemented by anything else on this list, you’re probably doing something right.
Keep it up!
4. She’s a Mole
When we say this, we don’t mean she’s a spy tasked with uncovering your deep, dark secrets. We also don’t mean she’s blind.
No, it just means that she tends to pop up whenever you’re around… Just like a mole in your yard, except prettier and hopefully less harmful to your landscaping.
The thing is… If every time she’s around, she only seems to want to talk to you… She’s 100% flirting with you, especially if she’s often physically close to you.
So if a girl always seems to show up and talk your ear off, relax! She’s not the KGB. Just a QT who wants to get to know you more.
3. So Many Questions!
If you pass out at the bar and wake up sitting on a wooden chair in a dank, windowless room lit only by a swinging light bulb, we might have been wrong about the whole KGB thing, Because that’s when the questioning begins.
But… if a girl is asking you an unusual number questions in any other setting, she clearly wants to get to know you more. And in most cases, (again, depending on context).
It’s her way of flirting, even if she’s not being overt about it. After a while of chatting, if she thinks you’re not getting the hint, or she wants to make it obvious she’s flirting…
2. Things Get Saucy
One of the clearest signs a girl is flirting with you and not just being friendly, is when she starts talking about the fun times she’s had with her exes. Or she asks you about the fun times you’ve had with past girlfriends.
Pure and simple, if the topic comes up, get ready… Because she obviously wants you bad.
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1. She Talks Like This
This last of the signs a girl is flirting with you is based on science. And what the research says is another reason you should always listen closely. Because when a girl raises the pitch of her voice while talking to you, or she talks a little bit faster than normal… It’s a crystal clear sign she’s flirting and may not even realize it.
Because when a girl gets excited about something you share in common, or she’s just plain happy to be having a fun and interesting conversation with you, there’s evidence that her higher pitch reduces the amount of effort it takes her to attract and retain a mate.
You’re that mate. Science rules, doesn’t it?
The Number 1 Sign She’s Not as Into you as you Might Think
Good call sticking around till the end. Because you don’t want to miss out on this #1 sign a girl is just being friendly with you.
Don’t get us wrong… If a girl is showing signs of everything on this list, it’s absolutely possible she’s into you… Of course, that’s only if she’s not spreading that attention to every guy in the room.
What do we mean? Well… Some girls are just naturally flirty. They like talking to people. Maybe they like the attention too.
In fact, you’ve probably met girls who fit the description. They’re usually the girls who “don’t get along with other girls.”
So if you meet a girl and hit it off, but later see her diversifying about the room, it might be a good idea to skip this one. Or if you’re feeling confident… Go ahead and double down and try to close. After all… You can’t win if you don’t play.
Those are 7 signs a girl is flirting with you… and not just being friendly.
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