In today's article, we're calling out all the worst types of women who will break your heart.
Finding love isn't easy, and part of my job as a dating expert is to make sure you won't get your heartbroken. From spotting a cheater to making a marriage work, I've written countless articles to help men and women alike in relationships.
If you're hoping to find your perfect girl, you must avoid falling for the wrong ones, and these types of women who will break your heart should never be on your dating list. You can thank me later.
The Worst 5 Types of Women Who Will Break Your Heart
They say you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you can find the love of your life, but what if you can avoid it? If you're new to dating or done crying your eyes out for the wrong person, you better watch out for these types of women who will break your heart.
They don't mean well, I promise.
The first type of woman you should avoid at all costs is the kind of woman who acts hot for you one second and appears to lose interest the next. One of the signs a woman might not be girlfriend material is when she seems inconsistent with her feelings.
She'll lead you on with overwhelming affection, attention, and flattery, then drop you cold all of a sudden- she'd pull away, act indifferent, and will stop talking to you for days, and this pattern will go on and on as long as you're willing to play the game.
These kinds of women will only take you on an emotional roller coaster ride that will never stop unless you cut her out of your life for good. Usually, when a woman acts like this, she's either not ready for a relationship, getting over a break-up, confused, or not really into you, but these aren't enough reasons to lead someone on, and you deserve better.
A woman who can't make up her mind makes a bad girlfriend. If she's blowing hot and cold, you'll only end up in a hide-and-seek-type relationship.
Being in a relationship with a woman who's unsure about you will only make you question your worth and, over time, will toll on your confidence and emotional well-being. Man, just thinking about it is exhausting!
4. Money Matters
Unfortunately, gold-diggers exist, and men and women alike all fall into their cold, gold-grabbing hands. Gold-diggers are like flies attracted to honey, especially if you're someone who earns plenty of cash. In the dating arena, these kinds of women date not for love but money.
Gold-diggers don't believe that love is unconditional. In fact, that rule doesn't exist. Women who are only there for your money are like leeches. For them, you're only as good as your paycheck. Not only will she run your pockets dry, but she'll also leave a big hole in your heart. Now, that's a bad investment.
If you don't want to fall prey to these kinds of women, you got to know the red flags. For one, gold-diggers don't appreciate thoughtful gifts. They like expensive ones. If you think you can sweep her off of her feet with a bouquet of flowers or a love poem, think again.
Another thing about these material girls is that their love language is money. If anything, they're only emotionally attached to your money, not to you. She'll only treat you right when the price is right.
Gold diggers also never offer to pay, are eternally and weirdly curious about your financial situation, and are very jealous of the people around you. They're very stingy with their money, and in her case, that's you. So pay attention to how she acts around people close to you, especially if it's the opposite sex.
If you think you're dating a gold digger, it's best to cut her off. They're nothing but thieves who break hearts.
3. Can’t Keep Anything Together
Dating requires maturity, and the ultimate test of maturity is being able to make your own decisions. That said, have you ever met a woman who seems "messy"? Messy in a way that she can't keep her life together.
The next type of woman you have to check off your dating list is the kind of woman who doesn't have anything figured out. She lives her life just going with the flow and without a care in the world.
In dating, this type of woman has no idea what kind of man she's looking for. Now, that might sound like an easy win for you in the beginning, but not for long. She dates one guy to the next without ever hoping to settle down. If she's this type of woman, chances are she doesn't even know herself in the first place. Why? Because if she has ever taken time to get to know herself, she would at least have a standard for everything and won't settle for a stroke of luck both in life and in love.
This type of woman will break your heart in ways you cannot imagine. She doesn't have any plans and doesn't see herself settling down anytime soon. That means you'll never be on the same page as her, and she won't be as committed as you. You'll be pinning on her for too long until you get tired of waiting. The saddest part is you can't really help her unless she realizes she needs to grow.
So let her go and find someone who can take you seriously.
2. Liar, Liar, Pants on Fire
Honesty is another important factor in making any relationship work. A relationship built on lies or full of it doesn't do anyone any favor or maybe just you.
Without honesty, we'll always be on our toes around our partners. That said, if the woman you're with hides everything from you by lying, then you're standing on shaky ground.
Honesty and trust go hand in hand. In fact, these two might be the pinnacle of what you need for a successful relationship. Women who constantly lie about everything are the kind of girls you need to avoid, and it goes without saying that these are the types of women who will break your heart.
She'll leave you in constant mental and emotional warfare, and if that doesn't sound toxic to you, I don't know what does.
Mutual trust and honesty are two key factors of true love. You don't want to be with someone you cannot trust. And no matter how many benefits of the doubt you give these women, they will always find a way to break your trust. So why stay with her?
1. Cheaters, Repeaters
Unfaithful women are the worst types of women to fall in love with. If she's a cheater, then she has commitment issues, and if a woman has commitment issues, she will have a hard time keeping her hands to herself, and if you're dating this kind of a woman, what would that make you? That's right—a fool.
One of the most common things about cheaters is that they're big, fat liars, so if you want to know how to spot a cheater before falling for one, you got to know the signs.
For one, cheaters tend to be very protective of their phones. Now, I don't want you snooping around on anyone's phone, but if you notice your girlfriend spends a lot of her time on her phone even when she's with you and seems secretive about who she's talking to, that's a red flag.
Second, her stories don't add up. According to therapist Dr. Sheri Meyers, if you notice inconsistencies in what your partner says about how she spends her time, money, and what is really going on, that can also be a sign she's cheating on you.
Lastly, their actions hint that monogamy is not their thing. If she checks out other guys in front of you, flirts her way to get what she wants, and has no problem with other people cheating on their partners, you better run.
Cheating is a choice, not a mistake. Remember that.
The Best Kind of Woman You’ll Ever Meet in Your Life
As cheesy and as cliché as this sounds, the best type of woman you will ever meet is your soulmate. But not in a whimsical, fairytale kind of way.
In real life, your soulmate is the kind of person committed to being the best partner because they understand that it's what you deserve. Falling in love is easy but staying in love and honoring that love is a constant decision you make every day.
Instead of spinning you around in circles and leading you on, she will be sure of you because she sees the kind of man she wants to be in the future win you. Instead of staying for money, she'll love you for who you are, not for what you have. She will share your dreams and goals in life and help you achieve them. Instead of wasting your time, she'll make plans with you- short-term and long-term. And she will never lie or cheat on you because she sees your worth and values your trust.
If you ever meet a woman like this, take care of her because she's a keeper.
Now that you know the types of women who will break your heart, it should be easy to know one when you see one.
Life is already hard, so why complicate it even more by falling for these types of women who will break your heart? You only have one heart, so take care of it and make sure you're keeping the right company. There's nothing wrong with taking things slow and taking your time to get to know a woman. That's how dating works.
And if you think you've finally found your soulmate, never let her go because you only get one chance at true love.