Gentlemen, today we’re showing you 10 ways on how to make her want you and lose her mind... with how much she wants you.
For every woman, there exists a precise combination of actions, an exact sequence of events... That can cause her to be completely, utterly, hopelessly infatuated with you. The only thing is, most of the time the sequence of events isn’t very obvious. Well today, we’re gonna show you how to crack the code.
And because we don’t want women puttin’ up the blinders as soon as you start trying, we’re also showing you the #1 thing you can do to go from being the most wanted man town, to a guy nobody remembers.
Let’s dive in.
10 Ways On How To Make Her Want You
10. Fuel The Fire
This is where it starts, and if you skip this part... you’re going to be missing out on the potent chemistry that’ll make everything else a whole lot easier down the line.
Think of it like this: Attraction sometimes needs a jumpstart, and that jumpstart is only possible by making a girl ask herself one simple question: “Does he like me?” No matter where it ultimately goes, it all starts with a girl being curious about you.
So your first job is just to remember to plant the seeds of intrigue. How? We’ll be showing you some of the ways to do that here in this video, but the easiest way is this...
Don’t worry if a girl suspects you might like her because of something you do. Maybe you do like her, maybe you don’t. Either way, now you’ve got the perfect jumping off point to get started.
9. Look At Her Like You Want Her
What if we told you that girls can feel the weight of your attraction to them, through eye contact alone. And all you’ve got to do, is not try to hide it.
When you look at a girl as you’re feeling most attracted to her, she’ll notice... and she’ll melt. It’s impossible not to. But the trick is... it’s gotta be genuine attraction, and it’s got to be eye contact alone. Under no circumstances shall you do anything, that diminishes the power of your eye contact in that moment.
Girls want guys to be attracted to them. Of course they do. They also want to know you like them, before they commit to anything. What they don’t want, is for guys to come on too strong.
So by letting your look do the talking, you align yourself with everything a girl wants, and since you’re not giving too much, you make her want you to give her even more.
8. Don’t Put A Label On It
With labels come rules and as soon as you’ve got rules, things become a little more formal, and a little less fun.
Now, that’s not to say that being in an “official” relationship isn’t fun, but there’s a reason why most couples look back fondly on their early days. The late nights, the unpredictability and spontaneity, the secrecy, all the elements that create the excitement and unrelenting attraction that a girl can feel for you... when your two worlds collide.
So how do you keep the good time rolling? Keep it lowkey. Hide it from friends, rendezvous in secret, sneak kisses in public.
Do these things... And we guarantee you’ll build a bond together that will forge intense, long-lasting feelings of attraction between the both of you.
7. Steal a Car Together
Okay, wait… Before you commit grand theft auto, don’t actually steal a car. What we meant to say is that when you’re with a girl, if you’re not doing anything exciting... she’s not going to be excited to hang out with you again.
So instead of Netflix and Chill, try something a little more dangerous like zip lining, go-karting, or an amusement park.
Whatever you do, you have to get her blood pumping if you want her to want you. Because according to science, when humans are excited or scared, they find the opposite sex more attractive.
So get wild with her. She’ll get excited and attribute that feeling to you. Plus, Netflix and Chill can always come later.
6. Know Where She’s Coming From
Everybody knows girls develop faster than boys and in the dating world, it’s no different. Not only do girls typically go on more dates, they also go on more bad dates. And by bad dates, we mean going out with guys who are freakin’ pine-nuts weird.
So understandably, a girl is going to be a little weary of you when you first hang out. So what can you do? Just show her you’re cool by letting her be in the driver’s seat. Hands off.
But here’s where things get complicated, most guys know not to be a weirdo. In fact, they do everything they can not to be one.
The thing is, everybody’s got a different definition of weird. What’s one girl’s “weird” might be your Tuesday night. And not only that, most guys tend to overcorrect to seem less creepy, and end up just seeming more weird in the process.
So what are we saying? Don’t overthink it. Make her feel safe, but don’t be overbearing. Show her you’re in control... But don’t be controlling. The more you can do that, the more comfortable she’ll be.
5. Vocal Charisma
The fact of the matter is this: there is no way to get a girl to want you, and only you, unless you offer something rare.
In general, it works like this: A girl who thinks you’re attractive, thinks you’re more attractive than everyone else. A girl who finds you hilarious, thinks she won’t find anyone funnier.
Whatever a girl finds in a guy, to her, it’s rare. And what may be one of the rarest qualities of them all, is charisma. That stuff, is hard to come by.
Like confidence, charisma takes time to master, but there is one thing you can do to get it in gear today... One of the most overlooked ways of exuding natural charisma: Is to avoid speaking in monotone. It seems inconsequential, but you’d be surprised how many guys drone on at girls in the same, flat tone.
By adjusting your timing, and varying the pace and intensity of how you speak, you will immediately double your charisma levels and create a varied sound, that commands attention and is irresistible to girls.
4. Do the Dance
If a girl already knows she wants you, she’ll give you the signs. When this happens, mention that thing two people do when they like each other and want to have fun... Y’know, “dancing.”
Obviously you shouldn’t bring it up out the blue, but if the conversation is headed in that direction, discreetly ask her about the craziest place she’s ever danced, or what her favorite dance moves are.
Because for a girl who likes to dance, talking about it will inevitably make her think about it. And it might get her in the mood to do some dancing. And she’s going to need a partner.
At the end of the day, most girls (and people, really) simply want to be heard and remembered. It might seem like a low bar, but when a girl’s friends routinely forget stuff she tells them, it can be a refreshing, surprising experience for Mr. Random to remember her name, let alone something she said.
You don’t need to be obvious about it, but if you can remember something a girl said a few weeks ago, like an upcoming job interview, or a birthday, you can be sure she’s going to remember you.
2. Your Phone Is Not Your Friend
In this day and age, we can communicate with anyone we like in a matter of seconds. And you’d be a fool not to take advantage of that... Right?
Not so fast. Remember, we’re not just trying to get on a girl’s radar, we’re trying to get her to want you... Entirely different thing. And over utilizing your phone... might hurt that. This is a tough one for some guys, and impossible to avoid for others.
So all we’ll say is this, your phone has the potential to kill your allure if you’re not careful. We’re not saying it will, but it exposes you to oversharing and over communication... which is the antithesis of everything needed to be the apple of your girls eye.
1. Be an Idea Man
You’ve probably read the following quote somewhere on the internet: “Small minds discuss people, average minds discuss events, great minds discuss ideas.” Which sounds good, until you realize Eleanor Roosevelt was just trying to hurt your feelings.
There are ideas for minds of every size, and whatever they’re about, don’t be afraid to share. This is the final part of knowing how to make her want you: Being relatable.
If all you talk about is a single set of ideas, you become either inaccessible or not worth it. On the other hand, if you’re the kind of person who can talk to anybody about anything, you’ve got one of the most coveted personality traits there is.
So don’t hold back. Don’t dismiss a conversation with anybody, and watch as girls and anybody else, vies for your attention.
The Number 1 Way to Make Her Lose Interest Entirely
As promised, let’s get into the real reason you stuck around: The #1 thing you can do to make a girl decide you’re more trouble than you’re worth.
When you finally get a girl to be interested in you, you might be inclined to suppress your personality, which quite frankly, is normal for just about everyone.
People get nervous and nobody wants to get hurt... So they filter themselves and sometimes even agree with things they normally wouldn’t.
But eventually your true self will have to come out, and if you’re not careful... You might get so comfortable with her that you become an entirely different person.
Maybe you’ve suppressed your anger problems the entire time, or maybe you’re just plain annoying when you’re comfortable with people. Whatever the case, if you’re not yourself in the early stages of a relationship, she’ll be wondering why the guy she’s breaking up with, is entirely different than the one she fell for in the first place.
Those were 10 ways on how to make her want you immediately.
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