Gentlemen, this is Mantelligence. Today we’re showing you 10 psychologically magnetic ways guys can get girls to approach them.
And because we want to be sure girls come to you and not the other way around, we’re also showing you one thing guys do all the time that gets women instinctively running the other direction.
So, to make sure you’re on her mind,
Here are 10 psychological tricks to get a girl to approach you, plus the one thing that will keep her from ever saying hi:
10. Make An Opening
You may not realize it, but some common habits you do everyday… may be putting up barriers that are more than enough to keep a girl you like from approaching you. For instance, if you’re wearing your headphones, looking angry, or just standing too far away, it’s going to make it difficult for her to get to you.
So to make sure she doesn’t have a reason NOT to head your way, make things easy for her: clear the path, remove barriers, and stay open.
9. Keep It Cool And Casual
No, that doesn’t mean you’ve got to go out of your way to always “look cool.” All it means is that women are much more likely to approach… if you seem relaxed, comfortable and showing openness with some good vibes. Because just as you’d rather not walk up to a girl when she looks wound up & stressed out, she’s much more likely to approach you if you simply look easy to deal with.
8. Don’t Be An…
As we mentioned, being cool and relaxed will help a girl know that you’re approachable, but also being kind and generous to those around you will let her know that you’re not a jerk. It may not always seem that way, but girls don’t actually like jerks and being rude and obnoxious to everyone will drive away a lot more women than it will attract. So our advice? You don’t have to be the nice guy, but you do have to be the good guy.
7. Have Fun
You don’t have to stand on top of the tables or swing from the chandelier, but if you can try your best to be in the moment and let go.
Because guys, you know this: Girls love being around guys who are having a good time and look like fun. It’s basically a law of nature. So if you’re out and really enjoying yourself, make sure you show it.
6. Beard Care
It goes without saying: If you’ve got a beard, that also means you’ve got a daily responsibility to keep it clean and food-free. While women love the rugged look and we know it’s always beard season, the last thing a girl wants when she finally approaches you, is to smell your beard before she can even start talking.
5. Contrast Your Style
If you’re like most guys, you probably have a type of day-to-day style you like to stick to. And while we’re sure your fashion sense is awesome, if you want a girl you see a lot to finally take notice… few things work better than simply dressing differently for a day. Why? If a girl sees you dressed the same exact way day after day, you become another predictable part of her routine. So when you all of a sudden dress differently, not only do you show her you can branch out stylistically, but you also psychologically remind her she can’t always know what to expect with you.
4. Have A Great Online Bio
If you’re on Tinder, Bumble, or any other dating app, a great bio is a MUST. Because if you want a girl to swipe right, you’ve only got seconds to create some real intrigue.
Here’s what works: Along with a great pic that tells a story, add a few quick things you’re into, and of course what kind of girl you’re looking for. Despite what it may seem, your profile does not need to be all that clever to get a girl’s interest… and in many cases, trying to be too funny or cute can actually hurt how a girl sees you online.
Just like everybody knows women are drawn to foreign accents in a guy’s voice, they also can’t ignore tasteful accents in a guy’s style. So if you’re looking for a way to show a girl you’ve not only got an eye for detail, but also instantly appear more interesting: Incorporate small stylistic accents into your day-to-day style.
If you wear a lot of dark colors: Throw in a bright colored hat, socks or shoe laces. If you wear a lot of lighter stuff, throw in some black. It might not seem like much, but you’d be amazed at the small details women will notice.
2. Don’t Forget Eye Contact
You’ve heard it before, but if you want to create instant psychological allure, you’ve got to nail the initial eye contact. When you briefly lock eyes and connect with a girl that you like, not only does it give her the signal that you’re interested and wanting to meet her, but it’s also just about the only way to show her you’re confident without talking to her.
1. Use Your Body Language Tricks
Here’s a statistic you may have heard before: Over 90% of communication… is nonverbal. Admittedly, we’re not sure exactly how reliable that number is, but body language is indisputably important when it comes to psychological communication.
So practice these techniques: Build familiarity by subtly copying her posture and her movements. Next, stand at the classically relaxed 45° angle when talking. And finally, don’t stare too aggressively. Women love eye contact but the first thing they look for… is comfort and safety with a guy.
As we promised earlier, here’s the one thing that will have women immediately intimidated: NOT SMILING. As you likely know… smiling is one of the most inviting things you can do. It puts people at ease and lets them know that it’s ok.
So if you want a girl to approach you, start with giving her a smile. Because who knows? That smile, could be what brings her guard down enough to finally chat and start the chemistry between you two.
And if you’re self conscious about your smile? Speaking openly and charismatically might just do the same trick.
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