Gentlemen, this is Mantelligence.
Today we’re showing you exactly what to do when a girl looks at you.
And because reacting to a girl’s look is actually much easier to get wrong than it is to get right, we’re also showing you the #1 thing that almost all guys do to kill their chances when a girl looks their way.
7 Steps to Do When a Girl Looks at You
Here are the 7 steps to responding with extreme confidence when a woman looks at you + the number 1 thing you NEED to avoid:
1. Win The Eye Contact Game
While the game may be simple, unfortunately, it’s also one that most guys lose.
Here’s how it works: When a girl looks at you, acknowledge her gaze for as long as you can. But, instead of looking for too long... be the one to look away first.
Not only does playing this game help you to confidently return eye contact, but winning also means that you don’t intimidate her into looking away first.
2. Smile Deliberately
There’s no way around it. If she looks at you and you don’t smile, the chances of her looking at you again the same way are slim to none. And even if you don’t end up talking to her, smiling more can be a life-changing habit.
So the second thing you’re going to want to do when a girl looks at you, is give her a warm, confident smile that lets her know you won’t bite if she wanted to talk.
3. Break the Voice Barrier by Saying Hi
Even if you’re attractive to her, before she can envision you as a guy she really wants, she needs to first envision you as a guy she can talk to. And that first step towards that, is breaking the voice barrier.
Think about it: before you say anything, you’re really just some guy to her. But even if all you say is hi, you get placed in a different category compared to everyone else.
4. Decide if You Actually Want to Talk
Guys often forget this one. But just because a girl is looking at you, doesn’t mean you need to drop what you’re doing and immediately talk to her.
So after you’ve made that initial eye contact, smiled and maybe said something to her... take a moment to ask yourself if you actually want to pursue this girl.
Does she really interest you? Or is it just that you think you have a chance with her? If you find out you don’t really want to talk, no big deal. Just get back to what you were doing in the first place. And if you do? Well now you’ve got to start planning on trying to talk to her.
5. Wait for 2nd Eye Contact
At this point, if you’ve decided you definitely do want to talk to her, but still aren’t totally sure that she actually wants to talk to you... the next thing you’ve got to do is wait to get that second eye contact.
Now, if you played it right, your initial eye contact was a great start, but it’s the 2nd eye contact that really lets you know if you’ve actually got a chance with a girl.
So without looking too obvious, just sit back, relax and see if you can catch her looking again.
6. Set the Stage with Your Body Language
Now that you know she’s looking, you’ve got one thing to do... and it begins with your body language.
Here’s what you do: If you’re not already, turn your body towards her direction, feet, face and all, and then without doing anything else, just get back to what you were doing. That’s it.
Seem too good to be true? Well here’s how it works: First, by turning your body towards her, you’re subconsciously telling her that she has your attention.
and second: By getting back to what you were doing, you silently engineer a pleasant, low-pressure atmosphere... that’s absolutely perfect for a fun, flirtatious conversation.
7. Go Talk To Her
From start to finish, the whole exchange really shouldn’t take more than a few minutes.
So if you feel good about it, there’s only one thing left to do. Start talking to her!
Because if she’s making repeated eye contact, smiling and (most of all), seems relaxed around you...what have you got to lose?
The #1 Thing You Absolutely Never Want To Do When A Girl Looks At You
If there’s one thing that can immediately make a girl stop looking and never look again, it’s to look away as soon as your eyes meet.
Guys look, among the many things a girl is looking for confidence is usually at the top of the list. So when she looks at you, one of the things she’s probably really hoping to see is that you’re not totally afraid of her.
Now just so we’re clear, that does NOT mean stare her down to show her you aren’t scared. All it means is to try not to do the one big turn-off that 99.9% of shy guys are automatically going to do... which is to pretend they weren’t looking when she obviously knows they were.
That’s 7 things to do when a girl looks at you, and the 1 thing you never want to get caught doing. If you enjoyed this video, give it a thumbs up and don’t forget to click and subscribe.
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