Today, we are showing you 16 AMAZING body language attraction tricks to attract women.
Plus because we want YOU to be sure that YOUR body language isn’t sending off the WRONG signs, we’re also showing you the 1 HUGE body language mistake that instantly turns women off.
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16 Body Language Attraction Tricks to Attract Women
These tricks are powerful, because they work to INSTANTLY attract women. And, the best part about them is that most aren't hard to implement... because, really, most of them aren't complicated. They're simple, small changes... that have a big impact.
16. Side Up
One thing that guys don’t often think about, is how they position themselves when they’re talking to (or even just looking at) a woman.
Think about it like this: If you’re talking to a woman and standing directly in front of her, does that really seem like something that would make her comfortable? Not really, right?
Even though it’s important to convey confidence in your stance, a girl isn’t going to care about your confidence if you just make her uncomfortable. So instead of aggressively positioning yourself directly in front of a woman, start by talking to her from an angle off to her side and letting her move to be in front of you.
15. Hack Your Height
It’s true. On average, most women like guys who are taller. But what they don’t tell you, is that they’re also instinctively drawn to guys with confident and strong posture. Because while they may like height, one thing that they dislike no matter how tall a guy is, is when a guy holds himself in a weak and unconfident way.
Now that doesn’t mean you should try to strut around like Conor McGregor, but if you make a conscious effort to lift your chest, relax your shoulders and hold your head up high, you’ll appear taller and there’s no chance women won’t take notice.
One thing you see from a lot of unconfident guys, is a tendency to close off their posture. There are a lot of ways guys might do this, but most commonly, crossed arms or holding something like a drink in front of them... serve as surprisingly strong signals to everybody that they’d rather not talk.
See... women subconsciously see this as a sort of shield blocking you from them. So unless you want to send extremely conflicting signals to women you approach, trying to refrain from blocking off your body with your hands when you talk to them.
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13. Make Sure Your Face + Body Say The Same Thing
All too often when a guy is talking to a girl, his face and mouth will be saying one thing, while his body will be saying he’s a nervous wreck. And when that happens, it’s something girls pick up on instantly.
So if you’re trying to convey confidence, pay attention to what your body is doing from the neck down, and physically turn your WHOLE body towards the girl you’re flirting with.
Want an easy way to accomplish this? Start by simply turning your shoulders to face her.
12. Show Your Bias
Not only do ladies know that guys check them out, but in the right time and the right place, they are looking for it and hoping guys do. If this sounds like a nice guy problem, it is.
Nice guys will go places where girls expect guys to be a little more open, a little more forward, and instead of showing their intentions, they end up looking out of place by not making a move. But here’s what to do instead: First of all, remember that in certain social situations, girls want a guy to be flirtatious.
After that, let the girl you’re interested in see you checking her out, and smile when she does.
11. Fight the Fidget
A guy that is constantly moving about and fidgeting will be seen as nervous and out of control. This isn’t the vibe you want to give off as a first impression. Because it’s so widespread, a guy who makes controlled, collected movements will automatically lure women his way.
Here’s how you can start practicing: Think about James Bond. Seriously. You think you see that guy fidget?
Slowing down your movements convey directness because they are more calculated and have purpose. You’ll appear more certain and it’ll show everyone around that you are more comfortable in your environment and it helps to create a bit of intrigue and mystery.
However, just remember not to slow down too much. You don’t want to be seen as the weird guy that moves in slow motion. How weird is that?!
10. Fix Yourself
Here’s another across-the-room trick you can do to get girls coming your way. Ladies notice everything you do no matter how small or insignificant you might think it is.
She will notice if you’re fixing your clothes when you’re around her and doing this will easily signify that you are interested in her simply because you are grooming yourself to ensure you stand out and appear attractive. Not only does it show her that you care about your appearance, but it also keeps her from guessing if you’re interested or not. And that’s the whole point!
So don’t be afraid to let her see you fixing your hair or straightening your shirt for her, if it comes across naturally, she can only be flattered that you’re trying to look your best for her.
9. Space Out
Even though we’re evolved, we’re still guided by some pretty primitive social dynamics. And one of the most ancestral behaviors, is taking up space.
Now we know what you’re thinking. No, not manspreading.
All we’re talking about, is taking up a little slice, the small bit of territory, that you need to be comfortable. There are two halves to this that women notice.
First, they’ll notice that you did not try to dominate and take more than you need. As fun as that might be, 9/10 women are not gonna like it.
The flipside, though, is that they also want to see that you kept enough space to be comfortable. And that part of it, is extremely important.
So put your keys and phone on the table, lean back in your seat, and don’t shrink into a space that’s too small for you. It’s not rude and as simple as it seems, this sends a clear signal of cooperation and confidence that women can’t look away from.
8. Check The Time
Was this one a surprise? Well stick with us because this body-language trick actually has a simple, but HUGE benefit: By checking the time on your wristwatch, it makes her subconsciously think that you have other (better) places to be.
Now, this was one of my favorites tricks from our ‘How to Get Your Crush to Like You’ video, because women, like everyone else wants what they can’t have. And so, as soon as you look at your watch, she’ll unconsciously want you to stay. Pretty cool, right?
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7. Walk ‘Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson’ Tall
Hopefully, you’ve seen the movie, Walking Tall. And if you haven’t, just think about The Rock walking in ANY movie. It’s deliberate, steady-paced, and confident, right?
The fact of the matter is this: Winners walk tall and confident… and at a good pace. And just like poor posture, walking slow conveys a distinct lack of energy and direction. Which as you might guess, are NOT things women want to see.
So what should you do? It’s easy. Walk with purpose. Now of course, that doesn’t mean you should aggressively barrel through people. But when you can, just try to walk like you know where you’re going.
6. Stand Bold
A lot can be deduced from simply observing the way someone stands. To attract women, you’ve got to have a stance that signals confidence and strength.
So here’s how you should stand: Stand with your feet shoulder width apart. This will help you to make yourself seem “big”.
Lock your shoulders back like we just mentioned. Pretend almost like your shirt is still on its hanger in the closet.
Keep your chin up and as much as possible, leave your arms at your side. Put it all together and you’ve got a killer stance that’ll not only make you stand out. But’ll get girls coming your way without you doing anything else.
5. Enunciate + Inflection
While not exactly body language, there are way too many guys out there quietly mumbling everything they say... and wondering why no women want to talk to them.
So just a quick reminder: If you’re talking to a girl, make the effort to fully pronounce the words you’re using. Not only will you immediately appear more confident, charismatic and intelligent but because she’ll be able to understand you, you’ll actually be able to have a conversation.
And as a bonus tip: Add inflection to your words. The reason why: It makes you, and what you have to say appear CONSIDERABLY more interesting.
4. Use THIS Simple Trick to Make Her Smile
At this point, this one should go without saying. But if you want a girl to smile at you, you have to do this ONE simple thing first: SMILE AT HER. It’s a simple body-language trick, that you probably already knew, right?
So… to make it more effective, focus on smiling at these two times:
- When you’re talking. She’s listening to you, so she’s focused on you. This means she won’t miss your smile, and will probably do the same in return.
- When she’s telling a story. This will make her more confident in her storytelling… and will help her relax and have fun with it.
3. Put Your Hands In Front of You
Just like it usually makes police offers more comfortable when you show your hands, it also makes women more comfortable. Why? Because it literally, and figuratively, shows you’re not hiding anything.
Think about a guy with his hands in his pockets as he talks to a girl, or the guy who puts his hands under the table. Do you think that displays confidence?
Now that doesn't mean you can't EVER put your hands somewhere more comfortable, but if you're in the habit of taking your hands out of sight, try to stop... and be amazed at how it instantly makes women way more comfortable around you. What if I told you there were MORE habits, you can do, that naturally attract women? Well, there are, they’re like cheating, and we’ve got a whole video on them.
2. Win THE Most Important Flirting-Game
What game? The “eye contact game”. It’s about immediately accomplishing two important steps: Showing you’re not afraid ...and letting her know that she’s in charge.
Here’s how it works:
At first glance, hold eye contact for as long as possible, but before she looks away, you look away first. For best results, you’ll probably need to learn to do this automatically. But without a doubt, this intriguing eye contact trick does wonders to get a girl’s attention and put her at ease. Want more flirting tricks, to make flirting dramatically easier? We got ya!
1. Above ALL… Mirror Her
If you’re a subscriber, you’ve heard us talk about the tactic of mirroring before. But here’s the thing: What may be one of the most misunderstood tactics in body language flirting, is also one of the easiest to do... if you can do it naturally.
Here’s how it works: By very subtly mimicking a woman’s body language or movement, you subconsciously build familiarity and make her feel more comfortable around you. And the best part, is that mirroring is actually something you’ll probably do naturally... so if you notice yourself crossing one leg when she crosses hers, or doing something like scratching your head when she fixes her hair that’s the organic kind of mirroring that really makes an amazing impression.
The #1 Body Language Attraction Trick That Guys Routinely Get Wrong
Earlier, we told you that if you want women to see you, you need to stand strong and be open in your posture. And while posture is undoubtedly important, going overboard on it is the #1 thing we see guys doing wrong.
Usually it looks like this: Instead of employing a strong but relaxed position, a lot of guys puff up their chests to make themselves appear bigger. And while that might make some guys look a tiny bit bigger to some people, what it definitely does not do, is make a guy look confident to women.
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