Gentlemen, today we’re teaching you how to make a girl smile using the skill of humor.
Because let’s face it... A guy with a sense of humor is one of the biggest turn ons for women... And according to a 2009 study by researchers from the University of California, San Diego, participants with a good sense of humor received much higher ratings on attractiveness and sustainability metrics than people with average or no sense of humor.
In other words, the funnier you are, the more attractive people find you… But humor doesn’t come naturally.
It’s a skill, an art form even, that takes time and practice to learn. But if you work on it, you’ll learn how to talk to girls by simply being yourself, which will be a funnier version of who you are today.
How to Make a Girl Smile
So in this video we’re going to get into a few of the ingredients that comprise the skill of humor, and tell you how to get better at using those ingredients to become a funnier person... Thus, making you even more confident and alpha than you already know you are.
Here's how to make a girl smile:
7. Get in the Mindset
First off, life is tough…
For everyone. It’s a constant slog through the mud with little bits of dry land every now and then where you can clean off the muck and relax for a bit. And funny people don’t ignore the bad, uncomfortable, or annoying things in life.
They take a long, hard look at them and find a way to make them more bearable to think about. They look for the light in dark places.
Now, does that mean every funny person you know is miserable?
And if you saw what we did there, you probably already have an idea of our next tip to mastering the skill of humor and making a girl smile, which is...
One of the key ingredients of humor - and one of tricks to get girls to chase you while using humor - is misdirection.
It starts with a relatable idea that’s explained so your audience thinks you’re taking it in one direction, but then you surprise them by going in a completely different direction than they expected you to.
Comedian Jimmy Carr does it in less than 3 seconds with this joke: It’s just a simple one-liner that uses misdirection - and it’s hilarious because the end result is completely unexpected.
So when you’re practicing how to flirt with a girl in the real world, try using some mild misdirection when she asks you a question. If she asks you what you do for a living, just make up some unbelievable nonsense like you’re the guy at the Zoo who gives the Capuchin Monkeys piggyback rides.
She won’t believe you, so it’ll be your job to convince her of the “truth.” And once you finally come clean, you’ll have successfully flirted with a girl who is now curious about what’s going on in that brain of yours and wants to get to know you a little better.
5. Timing and Tone
Let’s go back to the Jimmy Carr joke one more time.
First, I’ll read it as if I’m a student in your high school English class: “It’s a great feeling when you get a woman you’ve been chasing for miles.”
When I read that joke completely monotone, you’ll notice it was still a funny thing to say, but something was missing...
So if you want to learn how to get a girl to instantly like you by using humor, you have to experiment with your delivery, which is all in your timing and your tone.
Let’s listen to Jimmy Carr say it one more time: His tone while telling the joke is happy, and in that 3 seconds, he tells a happy story… Right before the pause.
And even though that pause is less than a second, it’s just enough time for you to complete the sentence in your head with a reasonable thought: A length of time.
But then Carr surprises you with an unusual and somewhat troubling thought - a length of distance, which has its own, unsettling implications you almost certainly weren’t thinking... The misdirection is what makes it funny. But the way he tells the joke is just as important in how it’s received.
4. Don’t Forget to Smile
At the end of a joke, it’s always a good idea to flash a smile so the person you’re talking to knows you’re joking... Plus, flashing a grin is one of the biggest alpha tricks to turn on any girl… As long as you’re happy with your smile.
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3. Learn From the Masters
Remember: Humor is a skill that you have to practice. And one way to learn any skill is by watching people who are better than you do it.
There are countless clips of stand-up comedians all over the internet, and watching or listening to them is a perfect place to start.
Their jokes may seem off-the-cuff and not rehearsed at all, but you couldn’t be more wrong... These guys (and girls) have spent countless hours standing in front of a mirror and up on stages, trying out new material, adjusting their timing and tone, and completely giving up on bad jokes that rarely get a laugh.
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2. Tell Other People’s Jokes (At First)
Now before we talk about this, we’re not saying you should steal jokes and not give credit. That’s what Carlos Mencia did, and if you don’t know who Carlos Mencia is, well... Now you know why you don’t know him.
So let’s say you’re talking about your favorite foods with a girl you like... If you’ve been listening to stand-up comedians like we told you to, you’ll know that Jim Gaffigan pretty much only tells jokes about food.
And if you remember some of his jokes, you now have a conversation starter that relates to what you and your lady friend are talking about. All you have to say is something like, “Oh, Jim Gaffigan has a great bit on fast food.” And then you tell the joke.
Telling other people’s jokes is a ridiculously simple way to practice your timing and tone. And since the joke is already proven to be funny, even if you tell it poorly, it’ll still make her laugh... And days later, when her friends ask her how her date with you went, she probably won’t remember what you guys laughed about... She’ll just remember she had a good time laughing with you. And that is one sure way how to make a girl smile!
1. It’s All About the Mindset
Yeah, we brought it back to the mindset thing… But do you know why? Well... We can give you a book of 1001 silly jokes to tell on a date, but will they make you funnier?
Nope. They’ll make you a parrot, repeating the same outdated jokes your grandpa told. And like confidence, or any of the other mindsets we’ve talked about that attract women, humor is a mindset that requires you to change how you look at the world - and more importantly - yourself.
Picture this scenario: You’re on a date at the movies and when the ticket-taker tells you to enjoy your movie, you say, “You too.”
If you’re an alpha male, what would you do in this situation? You wouldn’t blush and apologize for making a silly mistake... You’d laugh at yourself because you know it’s something anyone could accidentally do.
And your date would laugh too. And she’ll feel much more comfortable with you, knowing you’re confident enough to laugh at yourself.
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Those are the 7 steps how to make a girl smile that will help you master the skill of humor.
If you want to learn how to be attractive to women in even MORE ways, check out these other videos.
Thanks for watching!