Sam Whittaker | Nov 23, 2020 | 0
Where to Meet Women (Other than Bars) – 9 Places you can use today!
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Knowing where to meet women isn’t as hard as it sounds because let’s face it…
Women are everywhere!
But not all places are created equal when meeting certain types of women, which is why it’s important to be picky with where you try to meet women.
When you’re finished, you’ll know where to meet the girl of your dreams (or the girl you’ll be spending the night with) and where to avoid wasting your time.
9 Best Places To Meet Women
The best place to meet a woman is the place that makes sense for you.
If you wouldn’t normally go to the park, why would you go there by yourself strictly to meet women? That’s creepy. But if you bring a dog, a niece or nephew, or maybe your bicycle, you’re there for a reason, which is completely normal and socially acceptable.
Here are the 9 best places to meet women:
People love drinking alcohol. It makes you feel good and lowers your inhibitions.
Lowered inhibitions are perfect for growing the confidence that comes with talking to girls.
And places like the bar, a house party, wine festival, sporting event, or wedding are all places where women will be lowering their inhibitions (making them receptive to meeting new, and exciting people.)
Of course, building a relationship centered around drinking is setting yourself up for failure so be sure to mix it up a bit once you find a girl you like.
There are countless public areas that everyone is meant to visit and enjoy. Some of them establishments don’t even expect you to buy anything!
The park, the museum, the mall, a local festival or pumpkin patch, the library, and bookstores are all free places to hang out and meet women.
And the more you go out there and talk to women, the better your chances of finding one you like.
And since these places are free, you don’t have anything to lose.
Not the first place that jumps to mind when you think of “where to meet women”?
Well… it’s a great place to meet girls, because, no matter your interests, there are countless other people who like it as well.
Some people like it so much, they want to share it with the world in a workshop or class. You can find local classes for woodworking, pottery, dancing, sewing, singing, painting, or any other artistic endeavor that can be taught.
So pick a new hobby and try out a class for it! Even if you don’t meet any women, you’ll at least learn a thing or two.
Meeting girls at the gym is challenging because it takes finesse and social awareness.
The last thing any girl wants to deal with is a guy hitting on her when she’s exhausted and sweaty.
So you have to be casual and approach women in the gym carefully.
Start a conversation with a girl in the gym by commenting on her form, asking for pointers, mentioning something you like about her outfit or routine, or asking her what she thinks about the new machines. Just be casual and relaxed and don’t take up too much of her time.
If you’re an avid gym-goer then there’s a pretty good chance you’ll see her again so you’ll have plenty of chances to chat with her.
Take it slow and if she’s not interested, it’s not the end of the world! There are plenty more women out there (and you’re getting healthier and more confident by going to the gym).
Social events fall into many of the other categories in this list but literally any event where there are people is an ideal place to meet women because let’s face it…
We’re all lonely and want companionship.
So if you have friends, get some of them together and go to the local festival this weekend. There will be women.
If you don’t have friends or are looking to make new ones, Meetup.com has worked wonders for me and my social life. It’s a fantastic way to meet new people with the same interests as you.
Just remember: The more places you go, the higher your chances of meeting women are.
Weddings are one of the best places to meet women.
Think about it…
Everyone is dressed in their best, emotions are delicate, there’s dancing, and there are bound to be single women you’ve never met.
And since it’s a social event, you’re expected to mingle with the other guests.
But the best part? You already have an opener:
So how do you know the bride and groom?
Many people have a grocery day where they get all the food they need for the week.
Mine used to be Monday until I noticed there were more attractive women my age on Sunday. So I switched to Sunday and got a date out of it!
My point is this: The super market works if you want to meet women.
It’s much harder to approach a girl at the super market than other places but you’ll only get better with practice.
For less of a challenge, check to see if your city or town has a farmer’s market where you can happily find locally grown food and locally grown singles.
College is THE place to meet women in the 18-25 age group (during class hours of course).
Everywhere you look you’ll find cute girls, both taken and single and it’s your job to find out which is which.
And even if you don’t go to college, you are completely free to visit one and sit in on a few classes or enjoy the campus grounds.
If you commute to work on public transport, there’s a pretty good chance you’re sitting near the same single ladies every day and there’s at least one you find attractive.
That’s quite a lot of smooches you’re missing out on by staying silent.
Pick a day next week and talk to a girl you commute with. She might have her eye on you as well!
And if you don’t normally use public transport, use it the next time you go out to meet women! You might meet one on your way to meet one!
How to Pick Where To Meet Women
Choosing where to meet women is one of the most important aspects to meeting women.
You can literally go anywhere to meet single women but not everywhere is ideal when doing so.
Go Where you’d Normally Go
What are your hobbies? Is there anything you’ve been wanting to learn lately like dancing or how to make pottery? What places do you visit on a regular basis?
These are all questions you should be asking yourself before you head out to meet women.
By doing things you like or want to learn to do, you’re bound to meet people with the same interests as you, which is a great way to bond with people, especially women. Plus you’re learning new skills and contributing to your personal growth.
So learn a new skill or hone one you already excel at.
Just figure out what you want to do and go do it. There will be women there and if you know how to approach them, you’re golden.
Go Where the Women you Want to Meet Are
We all have a certain “type” of girl we like; The nerdy ones, the gym rats, the book worms, etc.
Different people flock to different places.
Want to meet a quiet, sweet girl? Try the library or art museum. How about a wild, party girl? Hit the bars or a house party.
By choosing your locale before hand, you can narrow your search for the type of girl that you think you’d get along with, improving your chances of finding one who’s right for you.
Go Where you Don’t Normally Go
I know… This is completely going against my first point but there’s a reason for that:
Breaking out of your comfort zone.
One of the best ways to grow as a man is to always do what you’re afraid to do.
In doing so, you learn your likes, dislikes, and limits, helping you understand yourself a little easier.
Are your friends going out for a night on the town to a bar you can’t stand? Go anyway and enjoy it. You might meet someone.
I can’t tell you how many opportunities (socially, romantically, and in a business sense) I’ve been presented with by simply leaving my house for the night when I didn’t feel like it.
Remember: You’re not going to meet anyone sitting around the house.
So get out there and do something. You’d be surprised at how easily meeting women is when you’re surrounded by them.
More Ways On How To Get a Girlfriend
Now that you know where to meet the girl of your dreams, you only need to figure out how to talk to her…
- Knowing how to flirt with a girl is your best tool to get a girlfriend.
- Learn how to talk to girls to avoid saying something dumb. (Even if you say something dumb, simply own it and laugh about it. Confidence is key!)
- Sometimes knowing how to get a girl to like you takes work. We’ve got you covered.
Do you know what’s great about going out to meet women? You meet people you don’t want to date.
Why is this good? Because they might “know a girl who’s perfect for you!”
So even if you’re striking out with the ladies, you still have the potential to make new friends who will introduce you to possible girlfriends along the way.
But after reading this article, hopefully you’ve learned a few tips and tricks about where to meet women and how to approach them.
So good luck and have fun! You’ve got this.