Gentlemen, today we’re showing you the 10 ways on how to make a girl fall in love with you fast.
If you been with us for a while, you know how to get a girl to like you. You know every trick to get a girl to talk to, to let you talk to her, and how to get her attention. But today we’re not talkin’ about how to get a girl to like you, we’re showing you how to kick things up a notch and get her to love you.
And since we all make mistakes from time to time… we’re also sharing the #1 thing you can do that will turn her feelings of love into feelings of disgust.
Here are 10 ways to make ANY girl fall in love with you quickly and the 1 thing that will ruin your chances:
10. Get Busy
Look guys… before you even think of how to make a girl fall in love with you… you have to love yourself first… and one of the most effective ways of doing that… is by becoming the man you’ve always wanted to be. And how do you do that? Keep busy! Learn about and try as many things as possible, because… by trying new things, (and not being afraid to fail at most of them) you’ll discover your limits, strengths and weaknesses, and what you actually enjoy spending your time on. In other words, girls like seeing guys who know how to get stuff done.
9. Know Thyself
The great Greek philosopher, Socrates once taught that, “The unexamined life is not worth living.” And he was absolutely right. A girl isn’t going to fall in love with a guy who has no direction and doesn’t know who he is. That’s not a man… that’s a child. Girls want a man who’s confident, sure of himself, and won’t overwhelm her with his insecurities.
And to really be that man, you’ve got to do what other guys don’t: Constantly question your own thoughts and actions. Seek to understand why you are the way you are… don’t worry about others, and always be the best version of yourself you can be. It can be a hard path sometimes, but by doing that, you’ll become more confident… And slowly become the real dude girls want to end up with.
8. Be Gentle, Man
There’s a long-standing myth that girls only date jerks. But it’s simply not true. Because as time goes on, most girls simply want a helpful and easy going teammate to navigate the field of life. Because life is like playing football. You dodge a bunch of hazards while trying to reach your goal… and sometimes you get knocked down. So it’s nice to have a teammate to pick you back up. And being that helpful and reliable person (but not forcing it)… is the gentleman thing to do.
7. Speak Your Mind
Picture this: You and a girl are discussing which land mammal is the coolest when she has the audacity to say, “African Elephants.” You know for a fact that Capuchin Monkeys are cooler, but do you tell her that? No! For some reason, you go entirely against your beliefs and agree with her even though you prefer Capuchin Monkeys to Elephants.
Look guys… if you don’t like confrontation, you need to work on that. Because constantly filtering your words to avoid even the most pointless disagreements… is an extremely insecure thing to do. And a girl will see right through it… girls want a guy who isn’t afraid to speak his mind. So say what comes into yours. And do it confidently.
6. Mushroom Your Personality
How to make a girl fall in love with you? If there’s one thing every girl wants to have when she’s with a guy, it’s a good time. After all, failed dates are no fun. So what’s the number one thing you can do to make sure a girl is having fun when you’re together? Be a fun guy. And yes, we’re aware that this entire section is just one really dumb joke… but that’s the point.
Girls love a guy who makes them laugh. And it’s not just because every moment she spends with him is a fun surprise… laughter releases the feel-good chemical, dopamine into our brains, so you’re literally hacking her brain when you make a girl laugh. So tell jokes, both good and bad, hone your comedic timing, and just be the fun-loving guy that every girl wants to be with.
5. Take a Break
Wait, we just had one of those didn’t we? Yes, because we wanted to remind you the best is yet to come. And that’s exactly what you should do with a girl. Back off from time to time (especially in the early stages). Because you’ve been there… you get so excited about this new girl you’re talking to that you text her too much or rush things… and you screw it up.
So instead of falling head over heels for her… make her fall in love with you. How? Be unavailable and have hobbies (but always find time for her) and don’t consistently be the first to text (or text her too much). By keeping a reasonable distance, you’ll be able to keep your emotions in check… and it’ll only make her want to see you again.
4. Avoid the Fun Sponge
Have you ever been around someone who is constantly a Debbie Downer? Someone who always has something negative to say, no matter the situation? People like that suck the fun out of everything. They’re fun sponges, and girls hate fun sponges. Remember: Girls want a fun guy. And by being a Negative Nancy all the time, you’re only making everyone else more miserable.
So look on the bright side of life and try to find the good in every situation, especially when things don’t work out. Because there are absolutely zero girls who want a guy who’s constantly bringing down the vibe. Speaking of bringing down the vibe, be sure to avoid doing these other things that girls absolutely HATE: 10 Things Guys Do That Girls Hate – Unattractive Things Men UNKNOWINGLY Do
3. Get on Their Good Side
It’s no secret: Girls are social creatures. They love talking to friends and family about, well… everything. And the girl you’re talking to is telling them everything about you… and they want to meet you.
So when the time comes to meet her friends and family, be sure to bring your A-Game because the impression you leave with them will last until they see you again (and who knows how long that will be). So if there’s ever a time to get a girl to fall in love with you… it’s when meeting the people closest to her and making a good first impression. If you can do that, they’ll want you to come around more because you’re “such a nice boy.”
2. Do You Hear What I Hear?
We live in an age where everyone is constantly bombarded with distractions. Buy this! Eat here! Look at this funny cat picture! Because of these frequent distractions, it can be hard to stay focused when you’re talking with a girl. And if you’re not listening to her… she’s going to notice… and your relationship will suffer. A successful relationship needs communication and listening skills.
So if you want a girl to fall in love with you, you have to be attentive and actually acknowledge and hear what she’s saying.
1. Touch Off, Blast Off
It doesn’t matter which phase of a relationship you’re in… physical contact is the #1 way to how to make a girl fall in love with you fast. So when you’re on a date, initiate a light touch at first. If she’s into you, it’ll give her butterflies. (It’s a great way to flirt) Because on top of an emotional connection, girls need a physical connection with their partner. Further on in a relationship? Never underestimate the power of a good back rub. Because let’s face it… back rubs feel fantastic. Plus, your hands will eventually wander to other places… and when the lights go out and the sheets are strewn about… she’ll be ready to blast off just as much as you.
Thanks for sticking with us! Now let’s get to the #1 thing guys do that guarantee they’ll ruin their chances. For everything we’ve showed you here today, it comes down to this: Falling in love doesn’t happen immediately. It takes time. And one huge factor in whether or not a girl even can fall in love with you… is compatibility in the bedroom (which takes a LONG time to find out depending on the girl). And the most effective way to be sure you’ll never know what that’s like… is by sending unsolicited pictures of your little friend downstairs.
No girl wants to open a text or Snapchat and be greeted by a boring-looking hot dog… so why would she want to see something similar? If anything, she’ll laugh at it, block you, and show all her friends. (Or even shame you on Snapchat) So really, you’re only setting yourself up for embarrassment if you do these things. So don’t be that guy… it’s rude, gross, and could have severe consequences for your social life. And it’ll immediately make a girl who’s worth falling in love with… second guess everything about you.
Those are our 10 tips to how to make a girl fall in love with you FAST… and the one thing you don’t want to do.
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