In this post, I'm breaking down a list of the best dirty questions to ask a guy.
Being in a healthy romantic relationship requires talking about what works and what doesn't in bed, which is why it's important to know a handful of thoughtful questions for couples and questions to ask a guy.
I have tons of experience helping women deal with their dating woes, from making a Tinder profile that stands out to making a long-distance relationship work.
If you're looking to level up your dirty talk, this list of dirty questions to ask a guy is guaranteed to spice up your sex life.
10 Best Dirty Questions To Ask A Guy
1. What's the sexiest thing a woman has ever done to you
2. What's your wildest fantasy?
3. What's the most adventurous sexual experience you've had?
4. What's your favorite type of lingerie on a woman?
5. What's the most important aspect of intimacy for you?
6. What's your favorite type of foreplay?
7. What's your favorite part of a woman's body to kiss?
8. What's your favorite type of music to set the mood?
9. What's your favorite type of kiss?
10. What's the most sensual massage you've ever had?
Ultimate List of Dirty Questions to Ask A Guy
As I said, maintaining a healthy and spicy sex life is a big factor in any committed and romantic relationship.
Getting into a naughty conversation is an acquired taste, but the more you do it, the more you get used to it. And if you think your guy doesn't like it, the dirty truth is that all men are into it. In fact, dirty talk is encouraged.
If you're running out of interesting conversation topics, how about a round of flirty and naughty questions to get the ball rolling?
This ultimate list of dirty questions to ask a guy might just fulfill your most racy sexual fantasy.
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If you're looking for the best dirty question, this list of interesting questions will help you discover your man's dirtiest fantasy or the weirdest place he has ever done it.
He might just be a member of the mile-high club.
11. Do you have any fetishes?
Trust me. We all do. Some guys are just too shy to ask for it. Here's the thing - men love novelty, even in their sex life.
You might already have a routine in bed, but knowing and learning how to fulfill your guy's fetishes will make him go crazy for you.
12. Have you ever had a one-night stand?
Most people have. If you haven't yet, it's important to approach this question without judgment. Otherwise, you're running the risk of making him feel uncomfortable opening up to you next time. People make stupid mistakes, and one-night stands are part of them.
13. What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever done it?
You'd be surprised about people's experiences with their sex lives. I've done it in a car, but some people have done it in parks, the movies, in their offices, and in every place imaginable.
14. Have you ever done it outside?
Adventurous people would be down to do it outside. Maybe your boyfriend's one of them!
15. What’s the best bedroom experience that you’ve ever had?
Sex is different for everyone. Some guys like it rough, some guys enjoy foreplay, and some guys would rather stick to what they know best. No matter what it is, it's important to learn each other's preferences.
16. What’s the longest you’ve gone without doing it?
Your sex drive can also be different from your partner's. This is one of the best dirty questions you can ask a guy to gauge whether you're a good fit for each other.
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17. Which body part are you most proud of?
One of the best intimate questions you can ask a guy. It's also an awesome segue to compliment your guy if he's too shy to answer the question. That will earn you a lot of brownie points, that's for sure.
18. Do you like cuddling?
Did you know that cuddling after sex is an even better way to bond with your beau? In fact, couples who cuddle after "Netflix and chill" are happier than those who do not. The more you know!
19. Before you got to know me, did you ever fantasize about me?
I'm sure we all daydreamed and fantasized over our crush before we even got to invite them for coffee. And now that you two are acquainted, it's time to turn those dreams into a reality.
20. Do you prefer making out or cuddling?
Making out sounds awesome when you're really in the mood for sex but cuddling with your beau doesn't sound so bad, either.
21. What is the best kiss you have ever had?
You might want to prepare yourself before asking this question because the answer could not be you. Not every naughty conversation ends with sex, you know.
22. Have you ever tried sexting?
Sexting or phone sex is a different kind of arena, but it's fun. You just have to be really good at it.
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23. Have you ever faked it?
This one's tricky. No man or woman would be pleased to find out that their partner has faked it once, twice, or even a hundred times! If they have, you can also ask why it's not working for them or how you can perform better.
24. What is the one thing you will never do in bed again?
The great thing about sex is that you can always try something new with it. The bad thing about it is that sometimes, things just don't work. Like a sex position you thought would be hot but turned out to be very awkward. Everything has a learning curve, even sex.
25. Have you ever made out with someone just because you wanted a favor?
That is a dirty move you should never be proud of. I will never recommend doing that. It's manipulative, and it's never okay to lead someone on.
26. Have you ever played dirty truth or dare topics with a group of strangers?
I did, and it was a crazy night. Try it out once in your life, but only if you're comfortable with it, try something you'd never do when you're sober.
27. Are you more of a casual or a serious guy in relationships?
If you're dating so you can end up with a long-term partner, you might want to ask this question to your Tinder match. You wouldn't want to be some guy's booty call when you're aiming for a loving relationship.
28. Have you ever tried to do a position you first saw online?
Oh, I'm sure your guy has tried a thing or two from his stash of racy videos, but if he's a virgin, maybe not.
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29. How would you try to pleasure a woman?
This could get pretty handsy, so you might want to brace yourself for the best treat of your life. That is, if he's any good.
30. What’s your biggest sexual fantasy?
Any guy who has watched Sasha Grey has already imagined their best sexual fantasy. You might just be the missing piece.
31. Do you like using toys in the bedroom?
Some guys would be game with using toys in the bedroom. Some won't. Either way, asking this question will help you know how to compromise in your sex life.
32. Have you ever been so horny you couldn’t control yourself?
Let's hope your guy can control his urges because if he says yes, you might want to reconsider the guy you're seeing.
33. What are you thinking about right now?
This would really depend on the mood he's currently in. You might want to ask this question when he's in the mood for it.
34. Do you like getting lap dances?
I mean, what kind of guy doesn't? I wouldn't mind getting a lap dance from a hot girl. I think it's fun.
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35. Would you unhook my dress if I asked you to?
I'm sure he would. A good follow-up would be to ask him what he's going to do next. That's a good way to gauge his love-making skills.
36. If my texts make you smile, you have to kiss me.
He'll probably say it does to get in your pants, but if that's what you want, then there you have it. That was a good move, though.
37. If you wanted a dirty picture of mine, how would you have asked for it?
Unsolicited nude pictures are the worst, so it's better to ask for consent and get rejected than to be all sneaky about it.
38. What would you do if I wanted you right now with me?
That would depend on the current circumstances, but if he can look at this question from a different perspective, he'd realize that you're not really asking. It's a dare. Would he be up for the challenge?
39. What is the most kissable spot in my body?
Cute question! And very promising! Guys like being teased, and doing it with finesse is just so classy but overall very sexy.
40. Have you ever asked someone to send a picture as a dirty dare game?
Asking someone for a nude picture is a risky game. Some might be up for it, but some find it tasteless, so be careful who you ask and make sure you know the guy well.
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41. Would you rather see a striptease or a seductive dance?
A seductive dance, sophisticated art, and striptease is just a group of women dancing around with money flying all over the background. But seriously, what is the difference? If it gets you in the mood, why not take both? Am I right?
42. Would you rather touch me or have me touch you?
You really should be touching each other when you're both in bed. Otherwise, it's just boring.
43. Would you rather want me on top or under?
Some men prefer submissive girls, while some are turned on by women who can lead the action. The key is to be both. Sex is give-and-take anyway.
44. Would you rather make love on a hill or a beach?
There's a theory that extroverted people prefer the mountains while introverted ones prefer the beach. Now it's up to you to test that theory.
45. Would you rather invite someone for a threesome or get invited for a threesome?
Some men view a threesome as the sexiest thing you can do in bed, but it's not for everyone. You do you, am I right?
46. Would you tie up your partner or get tied up?
Bondage is another common fetish for men, and I believe it has something to do with getting pleasure from dominating your partner.
Downloadable and Printable List of Dirty Questions To Ask A Guy
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Types of Sexual Questions to Ask
There are many types of questions you can ask your guy, but if your goal is to improve your sex life, asking deep questions is a great way to help you get a better idea of his point of view.
#1: Sexual fantasies.
A sexual fantasy can be anything. According to psychologists, however, men usually fantasize about a thing they don't normally do with their partner.
If a woman is naturally submissive, some men will daydream about their partner pursuing them and taking charge. If a guy's partner typically doesn't go down on him, he could be fantasizing about oral sex. If you've been doing the same bedroom routine, perhaps your partner wouldn't mind role playing while you're wearing the sexiest outfit he has ever seen.
As I said, guys love novelty, and trying something you wouldn't normally do in bed can be a very sexy change.
#2: Things you'd like to try.
Talking about your sex life can be awkward, but it's necessary that you and your partner are fulfilling each other's needs in the bedroom. If you're going to ask about the things your partner would like to try in bed, it's important to keep an open mind and establish ground rules and safe words so both of you would feel comfortable doing something new.
#3: What's currently working.
Having a happy sex life requires open communication and consistent effort. Now and then, sit down with your partner and discuss the things you like about your sex life. It's also important to affirm each other's efforts. Think of it as positive reinforcement.
#4: Ways to improve.
Of course, talking about what's not working is also important. How else will you satisfy each other if you're both all over the place? Pleasing your partner the right way and how they want it makes a big difference in keeping them happy. I mean, you don't want him to fake it every time, do you?
Tips On How to Talk Dirty With Guy
Dirty talk takes confidence and practice, but whatever you do, you definitely don't want to sound awkward or creepy because that's not really how you kindle a flame. Following these tips will help you stay on top of your game.
Tip#1: Speak your mind when you're horny.
Don't just vomit words! Try to do it as tasteful as possible. Here's a tip, guys love it when you tell them you like what they're doing. Complimenting them with phrases such as "you're so hot when you do that" is also a plus point. You could also try directing and telling your man how you want things done. A girl who knows what she wants is always sexy.
Tip#2: Play with fantasies.
Fulfilling your man's sexual fantasy is best done during foreplay. If you haven't tried teasing him with lingerie or dressing up as a character, that would definitely be a good thing to try. Learning some stimulating moves also helps. There are even apps that guide you through foreplay.
Tip#3: Let him know you like it.
If you think about it, staying silent while you and your guy are having sex is kind of creepy, not to mention off-putting. So the next time you get into action, let out a scream or a moan from time to time, especially when you really like what they're doing. As I said, positive reinforcement.
Tip#4: Party favors.
Do you know what's the next best thing after foreplay? Playing with toys. If you haven't tried using one in bed, you're missing out. Toys make sex more fun and exciting. They're also designed to intensify pleasure during sex, making your favorite sex position much more enjoyable.
Tip#5: Only use crude words if you're both comfortable with them.
By crude words, I meant whatever kind of word that makes you cringe every time you say it. Sex should be fun, and if you're really not comfortable with saying dirty words out loud, it's okay. As I said, it is an acquired taste.
Tip#6: Eye contact makes all the difference.
Sex is also a way to communicate with your partner, which is why eye contact is also important. Your eyes are windows to your soul and convey so much of your emotions. Maintaining eye contact with your partner affirms him and improves both of your experiences in bed.
Frequently Asked Questions
Still warming up to the idea? I've answered some more frequently asked questions to help you get the most out of your bed action.
Why would you talk dirty to your man?
In general, dirty talk is used to increase one's sex drive and enhance a couple's sexual encounters. It's a way of stimulating the brain through affirmation and engagement.
Does asking dirty questions will make our relationship more interesting?
It does in so many ways. For one, it is exciting. Second, it lets you know what does and doesn't work for your partner. Third, it's an awesome foreplay.
Does dirty talk always have to be sexual?
By nature, dirty talks are sexually charged and are meant to be used in bed to stimulate arousal, so yes, it always has to be sexual. Otherwise, it will not be called dirty talk. A dirty talk that is not stimulating is just a plain conversation.
Is it important to talk about sex?
It is. Sex is an important factor in a relationship. Having an open conversation about it from time to time helps you and your partner stay in the loop, strengthens your connection and intimacy, and establishes a healthy attitude toward sex.
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