Today, we’re showing you the top 10 turn-offs for women, that you NEED to avoid.
If you’ve done everything right with a girl, there will come a point where it seems like you can do no wrong. Where it seems like no matter what you do, she’s going to like anything that you’re about.
But guys, even when things are going good, especially when they’re going good, there are plenty of seemingly harmless, everyday things you can do that either slowly get under a woman’s skin and make her lose interest, or just kill the chemistry in the blink of an eye.
So… to help you out, we’re showing you the top 10 turn offs guys do that tend to slip through the cracks.
…And because we want you to know how to take your game to the next level, we’re also showing you the #1 thing you can easily do, to almost completely avoid turning a girl off.
Now let’s jump in.
Here are 10 turn-offs for women that you want to avoid plus the number one thing you can easily do to avoid those:
10. Low Volume Facial Hair
One of the biggest understatements of the year here… facial hair has made a pretty big comeback.
For a while (as in, for a few decades), being clean cut and shaven was more or less the norm. But these days, facial hair is everywhere. As soon as a guy can grow it, BOOM. No going back.
Full beards, five o’clock shadows, mustaches, mutton chops. If it grows on the face, guys are trying it out.
Nobody really knows what led to bearded revolution over the last decade or so, but there is one unfortunate side effect: A lot of guys are going for beards, when it’s just not in the cards for them.
We know, facial hair is cool… and even if you don’t want it most of the time, it’s nice to have the option.
While, of course, your facial hair your choice… when it comes to turning on girls, patchy facial hair typically doesn’t do it for them… and almost always, they’re gonna prefer a clean-shaven face to get close to.
9. Greasy Hair
Alright alright alright.
You’re probably hearing this and thinking, wait a minute, I KNOW I’ve seen guys with greasy hair get girls, so how are you gonna tell me greasy hair is a turn-off?
Alright, true. But what you might think is hair grease, is actually hair product. And if it’s product, yeah… It’s probably part of their style. But what we’re talking about today, is about the naturally occurring grease that builds up on your hair after not showering.
For some dudes, that grease may show up after a couple days without washing their hair… for others, it might show up after a couple hours. Like sweat and body odor, hair grease is largely genetic, and unfortunately… is something girls will notice when they’re looking at you closely.
8. Ratty Underwear
This one should go without saying.
…But our reports show that a surprisingly high number of guys out there… appear to be pushing their underwear to the limit… and girls are noticing.
For some reason, a lot of guys seem to have the impression that girls won’t catch that pair of ratty old boxers they’ve got on. It’s either because guys think their underwear isn’t all that bad, or because they think girls just don’t care.
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7. The Wrong Thing Playing in the Background
In general, one of the major differences between guys and girls, is that context plays a huge role in their attraction, and overall interest in guys.
If this sounds surprising, this phenomenon is pretty well-documented and understood in psychology. While women do like guys who are classically good-looking and well-taken care of, the overall presentation of the guy plays a much bigger role in how girls perceive him.
And that also includes the immediate context of being in the moment with a guy.
One of the places this becomes especially clear, is if you’re hanging out with a girl at your house watching a movie or show. If you’ve got comedy, horror, action or anything too distracting playing in the background, it’s gonna be a lot harder for her to look at you romantically, if anything starts to happen… the reason why is simple:
Because your entire presentation is off.
Which make sense, right? All we’re trying to say, is that if you’re watching a movie on the couch together, always be ready to hit pause.
6. Smelling Like a Gym Bag
You knew this one was coming.
Just about everybody, from AlphaM, to TMF to BasedZeus, has discussed widely the importance of not smelling like an armpit. And the reason for that, is because far and away, a guy who smells bad from a distance, is a HUGE red flag for women.
Now, there are some excuses that girls will let slide: You could have just gotten done working out, you could have been helping a friend move all day, or you could be a sailor returning home from sea.
Basically, if you’ve been engaged in heavy physical activity, you’ll probably get a pass. At least the first few times.
However, if you’re caught repeatedly stinking for no reason, don’t be surprised if she starts asking you to shower before coming over.
5. All Grooming All The Time
Alright. So you guys know that we always advocate proper grooming, taking care of yourself, knowing how to dress and that it’s always a safe bet to look after your appearance.
…But we also know… that with the sheer volume of information, opinion and choices as there is out there, it’s incredibly easy to get carried away in the details and get obsessed with looking good.
While your girl does want you to be able to look good, if you’re taking longer to decide what to wear than she is every day, your impeccable style is probably having the opposite effect of what you want.
4. Disgusting Nails
So, you may not think this is a big deal but a girl almost definitely notices how your nails are looking.
…And even though you probably (hopefully) don’t roll around with finger nails that can take an eye out, they are 100% a detail worth keeping in check. And it’s pretty clear to see why they might be a major turn off for women:
They look crazy, they hide bacteria, and worst of all, they scratch.
Now… you may not have had the misfortune of accidentally scratching a girl with finger or toe nails that are overdue for a trimming… but take our word for it: It’s embarrassing.
And as far as your night goes, there’s basically no coming back from that. While long, unsightly nails are an eyesore for sure, there may be nothing that kills the mood so swiftly as accidentally snagging your girl with a toenail that’s too long.
3. Why So Serious?
Here’s a common scenario:
Imagine you’ve been hanging out with a girl all night and while things may have started off alright, they slowly faded until it seems like she’s just kinda ready to go home. As I’m sure you can imagine.
This is something that happens a lot. And while there are endless reasons why a date can fizzle out, one of the most common reasons, is just because the guy didn’t look like he was having any fun.
Girls are magnetized by fun.
So, if a guy doesn’t seem like he’s enjoying himself, a girl’s most likely not gonna want to hang out for too long. Because like you, like your friends, like anyone else… girls need that feedback to let them know that everything is cool.
So… if you’re hanging out with a girl, and wondering why she doesn’t seem to be enjoying herself, there’s a good chance, that it’s probably because you’re just not smiling enough for her to know.
2. Failing to Mirror Body Language
Just like you’re wired to respond to what she’s throwing your way, she’s gonna respond to what you’re sending hers.
You’ve probably heard us talk about “mirroring” before. Basically, the mirroring we’re talking about is where two people are communicating, while also subtly copying each other’s body language.
Mirroring happens almost entirely on an instinctive level, and it’s a way of subconsciously building familiarity. Animals do it, and so do we. But even though it happens with us barely evening noticing it… it still has a huge effect on chemistry.
So much so, in fact, that if you’re not mirroring a girl’s body language… she’ll have every reason to think you’re not into her, which will lead to her turning off feelings she has for you.
1. Your Teeth
If there’s one thing, one loose end, one last remaining detail that can come back and bite you just as you’ve got a girl comfortable, it’s yellow teeth.
Honestly, this one stings a little bit. Because usually the way a girl finds out a guy has yellow teeth, is if the guy is laughing, smiling and having a good time. It’s a harsh reality.
It’s always in that moment when a dude finally decides to let his guard down and relax, that a girl notices “damn, those teeth are just a little on the yellow side.”
The good news is that, with all the teeth whitening options out there, yellow teeth don’t need to be something you’ve got to worry about.
The bad news is that if you’re just finding this out, you might’ve lost a few points with a few girls already.
By this point, you might be thinking you’re gonna be walking into a minefield the next time you go hang out with your girl.
…And while it’s remarkably easy to lose favor with a girl you like and take her from feeling it, to turned off, there is one thing you can do everyday to always have a leg up with a girl, get in shape. Seriously.
Now we know, this isn’t as easy for some guys as it is for others, but for a lot of guys out there. A ton of their problems would be solved just by getting strong.
The reason why? Honestly, it’s NOT that you’ll look better. It’s not that you’ll be stronger.
It’s almost 100% due to the fact that exercise is guaranteed the clearest path to becoming a fundamentally more confident version of yourself. Which is without a doubt the #1 realest turn on for women anywhere you go.
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