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Guys, have you a new bae in your life that you want to send romantic good night messages?
Texting is such an integral part of a commitment to consistent connection in dating these days. A well-timed carefully contemplated good night text for her is a keystone to establishing a trustworthy relationship where both partners feel safe with each other no matter how many miles separate you.
So let's talk about how to text a girl. We'll also give you some training in how to talk to girls, because we all start somewhere.
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Of course, it's best to speak openly and authentically from the heart without needing to consult our carefully curated examples.
We know you'll get there, where this stuff is as natural as breathing. However, we know how important a good example is to help us not feel awkward when we're just starting out.
So feel free to start out with some of our tried and true good night messages.
Here are the 14 best romantic good night messages:
We all feel alone sometimes, even when surrounded by people. Maybe even especially when we're surrounded by people who don't necessarily understand us no matter how hard they try.
This one's a little bit on the dramatic side. We recommend breaking this one up into smaller bites so you don't sound like you're trying too hard.
A guy who acknowledges the greater, deeper meaning of dreams is someone who thinks beyond the mind. He feels in the heart and intuits in the soul. All great things.
Make sure you really mean it when you use the word soulmate. Used insincerely, it could be really off-putting.
These simple words never get old.
This sounds like a really tender, sweet blessing that could fit most circumstances.
A timeless pet name like "darling" could be just the thing to make her feel loved and celebrated.
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Explore words that add color to your intention.
You're acknowledging your evolution.
You're letting her know how she affects you emotionally.
It's important not to lose yourself completely to the idea of being in love rather than the actual person. It's a wonderful feeling. Just make sure it's real.
Promises and plans for the future abound.
A picture of a primal promise stirs the soul.
It's true how two people grow together with every pulse of their heart beats starting to converge.
It's a very important practice to let her know that not only is she the last thought on your mind at night, but the first one on your mind in the morning. So these texts are interchangeable between the rising and setting of suns and moons. Send a good morning text for her to broaden your adoration.
Here are 16 romantic good night messages that are also great good morning texts:
You're saying that it's not just in the moments you text her that you're thinking about her.
You're telling her that you are amazed and proud of how actively and vivaciously she is diving into life.
You're expressing commitment and longterm endurance and laying down the foundation for a life together.
Pet names to refer to yourself might be okay. This works even better if she's already actually thought of calling you her sweet teddy bear herself.
You're looking into the future.
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You're cherishing the richness that is unfolding with each moment together.
This is a simple and very sweet well-wish that you can't really go wrong with.
This one could also work with just the first part.
You could say this, but even more powerful is showing her this with your consistency in goodnight and good morning texting.
You're expressing the joys of the present moment.
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Here's some poetry for you.
Gratitude is an important exercise to be dipped into daily.
Wordplay that rhymes and alliterates is great.
If the two of you can't be together, these spoken words can be just as good as actual physical hugs and kisses.
Sweetness abounds. It's a good one.
A rhyme to sweeten the mind.
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It always helps to have a strong grasp in starting conversations. Sometimes it doesn't even matter what you start talking about, more that you chose her to converse with, again and again. These text conversation starters are sure to help.
Here are 19 romantic good night conversation starters:
You're setting an intention to keep the romance alive in your relationship. Courtship has a sweetness and a traditional nostalgia to it that lots of people still really appreciate.
This is totally an awesome one, even for someone who's very grounded and knows that what happens in movies isn't like real life.
You're not picky and you're truly flexible.
You're confirming your motivation to have words be one of your main love languages.
You're implying that you're thinking about her surprising her with it.
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You're intrigued and curious about her mystique.
You're testing the waters to see if she's ready for some more intimate conversations. This is definitely flirting and it could get spicy.
You're implying that you're using her answer to plan for when you both have the day off together.
You're telling her that you're wondering what would really please her.
You long to laugh long and hard with her because laughter is the best of medicines.
You're hinting that it means something significant to you and you'd like to be romantic with her and key in to what she'd like that to mean.
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Some promises and goal and plans for the future can be nice to get excited together.
It's an honest and vulnerable inquiry, especially when you're trying to get a feel for how a relationship is blossoming.
This is a very mature and thoughtful question that is worth asking and answering.
You're testing her intuition.
This is a powerful and important question. If she's afraid of conflict and doesn't give you a resounding yes, you might want to steer clear of her altogether because she won't be emotionally available for the hard stuff.
This is a vital means to know someone and should be explored completely by both partners.
It's an interesting inquiry to match colors with tastes because there's so much variation.
A playful question, it gets the point across!
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Maybe you're dating this great girl. Maybe she's been your best friend for awhile now. Maybe you've decided that now is finally the time to take the next step. You'll need to know how to ask a girl out over text.
Here are 6 romantic goodnight messages to ask a girl out over text:
This is about as straightforward and no-frills as you can get. This should be a default. It works.
This is totally being indirect in a way that's kind of funny. She might not get that you're asking her out though.
This one is playful and flirty enough that it's not exactly asking her out but she'll get that you like her and desire intimacy with her.
This is kind of confusing but it implies that you want to have fun and party with her.
This in no way shape or form implies that you're romantically interested. It might be implying you just want to get together as friends. If that's the case great! If you're vying for more, you might want to be more clear.
This is a pretty classic suggestion. Boy meets girl and likes girl and wants to spend more time with her.
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You'll want a few flirty texts for her up your sleeves.
Here are 11 flirty romantic good night messages:
Your love is a whole-body experience.
This is more of a love letter than a love text and that could be really great. Especially if your lady is one of many words herself.
It's a true practice to communicate through dreams with another whom you have a high soul connection. So make sure that if you use one like this, you've thought about what it really means and it's actually true for you.
This is a wonderful and natural option.
What a beautiful thought because there is no such thing as running out of stars! We love this one.
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The sweetness of rhyming poetry is perfect.
This one is wonderful and adorable and really creates a great visual. Almost everyone wants to be hugged and held as they lay down to sleep.
This one, when a certain amount of trust is already established, can sound playful and confident, like saying "I know you love me, and thank you for that love."
This is lovely and playful and welcoming.
A cheesy one that is still full of meaning.
This is a great expression of tenderness and affection and it's a little bit impish too.
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Sometimes she didn't text back. It may be because she's not into you and trying to send you that message by ignoring you, but we also know that sometimes life gets in the way and it doesn't hurt to put out feelers one more time.
Here are 12 romantic good night messages after she didn't text back:
This is very straightforward and clear and if she doesn't text back after this one, it's probably best to move on.
Do not say something like this if you suspect she's not into you. It's annoying and passive-aggressive and says more about you than her.
This sounds whiny and desperate and we highly recommend you avoid acting like the world revolves around you. We cannot force someone to care about us.
This section is more or less a summary of the guy you do not want to be.
We suggest exercising the delete key if something so passive-aggressive comes out onto your screen.
There is a definite reason she's not answering you.
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You're gonna need to do some work on yourself if you're stooping this low.
Just no.
We hope you're getting a kick out of this section.
It took us a minute to realize this is satire.
This one is actually hilarious and the caps lock makes it even better.
We're dying. Boom dead.
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Gentlemen, there's rhyme and reason for picking the best romantic good night messages. We're going to offer you some tips.
Here is how to pick the best romantic good night messages:
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Unless you're getting positively redundant, keeping it short and sweet is best. It's more the timing and the energy of your text that delivers the act of love.
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Honestly our lists of ideas are intended to support you as you start allowing your own poetry to pour out of your heart, mind, mouth, and in this case, fingers. Don't get so bogged down in studying that you start sounding inauthentic.
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If you're anxious or annoyed at her texting habits, it's not going to help the relationship if that's apparent in your tone. Practice assuming the best about a person, no matter who they are.
Here is a downloadable and printable list of Romantic Good Night Messages (right click the image and select save Image As...):
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Sending and receiving romantic goodnight messages are some of the most tender and precious parts of a blossoming relationship because they illustrate so completely how much two people miss each other when all is said and done with the trials and tribulations of life at the end of the day.
It's a good time to tell her you miss her. It's a good time to tell her what's alive in you right in the present moment. It's a great time to inquire what's most alive in her in the present moment too. It's a wonderful thing to simply practice being present with each other in addition to treasuring memories and planning for the future together.
Share how you're feeling. Ask how she's feeling. Focus on building trust. Focus on finding deeper and more mindful ways to feel into your connection and putting that into words with romantic goodnight messages.
One of the greatest discoveries a man makes, one of his great surprises, is to find he can do what he was afraid he couldn’t do.
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