things to talk about with a girl - main in postHere are 7 of the best things to talk about with a girl. When you’re first getting to know a girl and you’re maybe a little nervous, it’s all too common for stimulating conversation to be hard to come by. But if you go in prepared with some topics in mind, good conversation comes easy.

So… to help you talk to women, here are 7 powerful topics to talk about with any girl:

1. Personal Passions

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Whether it’s a sport you play, your job, or your pets…you probably have a few passions that you can always talk about with a girl. Not only will she enjoy hearing you talk enthusiastically about what’s important to you, but it’ll also open up the conversation for her to be able to talk about whatever she’s into.

So whatever it is that gets you excited, or keeps you busy outside of work, don’t hold back on talking about it.

2. Family

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Want a great topic that can almost fill up an entire conversation? There may be no better topic than family. Because just like you both have your own unique passions, you both have a unique family history, which not only gives you plenty to talk about, but also helps you learn a ton about who she is.

So take the chance to ask how she gets along with siblings or her parents, or how often she sees her family. And don’t forget to also talk about yours.

3. Childhood and Growing Up

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Talking about family might also lead to another great thing to talk about: Childhood. But what makes her childhood such a powerful thing to talk about? Not only is it usually pretty fun to talk about the nostalgia of childhood, but doing so also gives you insight into what made her who she is today.

Maybe she was kind of a nerd in school, or maybe she spent her summers somewhere interesting, whatever made her childhood what it was, it’s definitely worth the conversation.

4. Past or Future Vacations

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Whether it’s the beach, a camping trip, a historical town, or a wild adventure, everyone is looking for some time away from their normal day-to-day routines. And future or past vacations provide a great source of conversational topics:

Not only will you will you find out if you have vacation ideas in common but the vacation she’s looking for in the future, can also tell you a lot about her life now.

And who knows? If it sounds like you want to see the same places, you might even eventually be able to plan a future getaway together

3 Powerful Tips To Keep The Conversation Going


Let’s quickly pause here to talk about a few key things to remember when talking to a woman. Because no matter how good the topics are, you’ll still need to know how to keep the conversation flowing naturally.

#1. Search Out Her Conversational Leads

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Even with all of the best, most engaging topics in mind, you’ve still got to know exactly when to talk about them. But don’t worry, because most women are constantly hinting at what she wants (or more importantly doesn’t want) to talk about.

And here’s the reasons why this so great: Not only will you not have to worry as much about coming up with topics, but because you’ll actually be talking about what she wants to talk about, she’ll also be way more likely to keep the conversation going on her own.

#2. Ask The Right Questions

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Just like how knowing the right topics is important, knowing how to ask the right questions is equally as essential.

What exactly are the right questions?

Instead of questions that could potentially lead to one-word answers, The right questions are open-ended, and give her the chance to “tell a story.”

#3. Offer Information About Yourself

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So… you’re looking out for her conversational leads and asking all the right questions, but when was the last time you offered up something about yourself?

Maybe you’re being polite by keeping the focus on her, but if you’re asking all the questions and not giving her the chance to learn about you, you run the risk of the conversation feeling less like a conversation… And more like an interrogation.

So every now and then, be sure to try to weave in something about yourself, or let her ask the questions.

Okay, with those 3 tips to help you keep a conversation flow, let’s jump back into the final top 3 things to talk about with a girl.

5. Movies, Music or Art

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If you’re looking for a lighter topic, that could very likely get you both to open up,  there surprisingly may be no better thing to talk about than art.  And that doesn’t just mean talking about Picasso.

Other art forms, like movies, books or fashion, are all great conversation-starters.

What exactly makes them so good? Because, even though talking about your favorite band or TV show can start off simple, learning each other’s choices in different art forms can often end up telling you a lot about each other.

6. Polite and Personal Compliments

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While compliments aren’t exactly a thing to talk about with a girl, they do have a very important place in the conversation. That’s because the best way to make it clear that you want to be more than just friends… is to give her a few well-timed, polite and slightly romantic compliments.

Maybe she has great fashion sense, or maybe she’s funny or surprisingly athletic.

Whatever it is you like about her, take the chance to let her know.

7. Plans For the Future

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Talking about plans for the future with a girl is great for two reasons: Not only can it create an excited, fun conversation (like talking about vacations), but you can also find out if your plans are on the same track as each other.

For example, she may be hyper focus on her career and getting promoted, or she might be planning to move to a new state next year.

The question to ask yourself, do her plans for the future align with what you want in a relationship?

The 1 Thing You Should NEVER Bring Up in Conversation With a Girl

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So, with those 7 great things to talk about with a girl, you should also know about there is 1 thing that is usually much better left unsaid. Because if there’s anything that can completely derail a smooth conversation, it’s talking about hot-button topics, specifically politics and religion.

Even if you actually agree with each other on the issues, politics and/or religion can turn an otherwise pleasant conversation into a heated argument

So unless you met at a political or religious event, these controversial topics are almost always better left for later.


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