MNTL Team | Feb 18, 2019 | 0
7 Signs She’s Not Into You – Know when to back off!
Gentlemen, today, we’re facing some hard truths and looking at 7 signs she’s not into you
Nah, it’s not that bad. But it’s important to know when you shouldn’t waste your time with a girl… Some ships just sail. Trains leave stations. The plane has…taken flight.
Realistically, learning when a girl doesn’t like how to deal is the first step to knowing when they do… And is something that every guy should learn. Alright, let’s jump in.
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Here are 7 Signs She Doesn’t Like You:
7. You’re Pulling Teeth
The key to a relationship that’s got any chance of going anywhere… Is chemistry. And chemistry is that unfakeable, unmistakable connection that makes the hours fly by, and makes being with her seem easy.
So if being with your crush feels more exhausting than exhilarating, I hate to say it but… She’s not feeling the chemistry. How can you tell?
Look for these 3 signs: Your conversations will feel forced, her responses will be frustratingly short, and she’ll ask just enough questions to keep from seeming rude. These are all telltale signs she’s not into you, and unfortunately means the relationship is d-e-a-d dead in the water.
6. Friendship Reminders
If it seems like she mentions your friendship a lot, unfortunately it’s probably because she doesn’t like you as anything more.
I hate to break it to you. But hey, you got pal privileges. And pal privileges are great: You get to hang out with her and her friends. You get to chat and text with her… Oh and the best perk, you’ll be the first person she calls when she needs advice.
But alright, just because a girl sees you as a friend doesn’t necessarily mean you’re in the friendzone… But if she ever tells you she loves you like a brother, it’s time to reevaluate your feelings for her… And decide whether you can handle being just friends with your crush…
5. Excuses, excuses
Quick question: Is making plans with your crush next to impossible? Is there always some reason she can’t hang out? And when you do finally make plans, does she bail at the last minute?
All these excuses could be signs that she’s the busiest girl in the world… but it’s more likely that’s its one of the signs she’s not into you. A girl who likes you is going to want to spend time with you, and even if she is busy when you ask her to hang, if she likes you, she’ll reschedule.
Give her the benefit of the doubt once or twice because after all, life happens… But if she makes a habit of making excuses, find someone else who will return your effort, and make time to spend with you.
4. Failing the Text Test
Texting is such a huge part of modern romance because it’s supposed to be an easy way to stay in touch even when you’re busy. And because texting has become so important to dating, your messages are a great place to look for signs she doesn’t like you.
Now, we don’t want you over-analyzing every message for subconscious signs of attraction, but you should think about her overall texting behavior. Leaving you on ‘read’, sending brief or even one word responses, and never being the one to initiate a conversation… Are all signs a girl isn’t interested in you.
One of the most confusing situations you can find yourself in is getting involved with a girl who treats you one way in private… and a totally different way in public.
It seems like she likes you when you’re alone, but you’re strictly friends when anyone else is there to see. The hard truth about that is, she might like you… but not enough to be open about it.
But before you cut your losses, investigate this sign a little further… If you really like her, have an open discussion (in private, of course) about what’s going on between you and where it’s going.
Either you’ll prove you can work together to solve problems, or you’ll realize you’re heading in different directions. And if the latter happens… Don’t try to win her over in the last minute. It never works.
2. Body Language
Alright fellas, we’ve talked about the body language signs she’s attracted to you before… but if you need a refresher click the link to watch the video again. And if she’ll show you with her body that she’s interested, it makes sense that she’ll also use body language to signal that she isn’t into you.
To let you know you’re barking up the wrong tree, she’ll keep herself physically closed off. Crossing her arms or angling her body away from you are her ways of letting you down gently, a hint that says, “before you get ahead of yourself… you’re probably gonna have better luck elsewhere.”
1. Eye On the Prize
Women have an almost magical ability to be aware of every single person who enters and exits a room.
So you better believe as soon as you walked in, she spotted you. That means if the girl whose eyes you’ve been catching suddenly appears next to you… It’s because she wanted to be there. Getting near you is one of the clearest signs a woman wants to be approached.
On the flip side, if the girl whose eyes you keep catching always seems to leave an area just as you arrive… It’s probably not just a coincidence. It’s a sign she doesn’t like you.
Those are the 7 signs she’s not into you at all and your style is whack.
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