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by | August 5th, 2020

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Gentlemen, today we’re sharing with you what women really want in a guy.

Here’s the challenge with women. They say the want one thing, but their actions speak otherwise. Needless to say, it can be confusing.

Well today, we’re gonna get all that cleared up. By showing you how to read between the lines, you’ll learn the methods to knowing exactly what women really want in a guy.

Alright, let’s jump in.

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7 Things Women Really Want

7. The Little Things

You already know the importance of having a keen ear when getting to know a woman, but listening closely to what a woman says (and deciphering what she wants), is just one of the many tricks to get girls to chase you.

That’s because... what women really want is a man who knows how to listen… It shows her he cares.

But it’s the little things you do with the information you learned while listening, that make her fall head over heels for you. Fast. Which is why surprising her with her favorite flowers she told you about on your first date... Is just one way listening pays off.

So if you can do some little things here and there for her to show her you’re paying attention, you’ll have no trouble keeping her around. Just don’t be a nice guy about it and you’ll be juuust fine.

6. Catch the Runway

How many times have you set out on a new goal or a new project... only to be stopped by the more mundane aspects of getting from “Point A” to “Point-B?” As they say, the devil is in the details. And it’s always the little things that keep you from gaining any real momentum.

It’s kinda like trying to skate over a few pebbles in the road. The path may look clear from afar, but as soon as you get going, you’re on your face.

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5. Stay True

Great advice? Or the greatest advice?

This may seem like common knowledge by now, but you’d be surprised how many guys lose sight of who they are the moment a girl shows interest in them. They lack the principles to carry them through a challenge, including a girl who may or may not like him.

So don’t use a bunch of alpha male body language tricks unless you can make them apart of your personality. Because pretending to be someone you’re not will only doom you to a life of loneliness.


In other words, man the heck up!

Being able to bench 250lbs, build a house, and fix your car, doesn’t make you a man.

A man takes a hard look at himself and learns where he needs to make changes. A man has morals and values that can’t be wavered, a man has passions and shares his joy for them with others. And he’s never afraid to show his sensitive side, regardless of what others think about it.

So if you love cats, love them. If you like dancing, dance. If you have to cry, let it out. Because what women really want is a man who isn’t afraid to be the best version of himself he can be.

It takes years of work that never stops. But it’s how you find the girls worth keeping.

Hey, what do you know… We have a video on this exact subject: Why Every Man NEEDS Core Values + 10 Personal Values of History's Great Men

3. The Best Policy

So lets say Beth says something that hurts Kevin’s feelings... Beth will have no idea how Kevin feels unless he says something.

Communication is the holy grail in every relationship. And being honest with yourself and each other is how you get it.

So if you’re wondering how to get any girl you want, coming in hot with 100% honesty will go far. It’s what girls want in a guy.

No lies. No half-truths. Speak your mind and be upfront. It doesn’t always make things easier, but it is ultimately what girls want in a guy.

2. Who Is This Guy?

So you know how we just told you being honest with women is extremely important. The thing is… In the early days of dating, if you’re too forthcoming with information, you’re only setting yourself up for failure.

Talking about that tough year you had in college is a personal story. And if you’re on a first date with a girl and tell her about how depressed you were during that time, she’s going to feel very uncomfortable because you’re practically strangers...

So hold back some information at first and be mysterious. It’ll make her want to get to know the deeper side of your personality, instead of having it spoon fed to her.

1. Bonnie and Clyde

You’ve heard the story of Bonnie and Clyde, right?

They robbed a bunch of people during the Great Depression and killed anyone who tried to stop them.

Does this mean you should kill a man to get a girl to like you? No, of course not. Murder isn’t one of the things women find attractive.

But building an unbreakable bond and being the one person she can always count on... Is exactly what a girl wants in a guy. She wants a partner in crime to help her navigate the roadblocks of life.

In Conclusion

Those are the 7 things what women really want.

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