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Being a good boyfriend means not being a jerk, but being a great boyfriend means going above and beyond, being intentional, and planning fun things to do for your girlfriend.
There are so many ways to let your girlfriend know that you are crazy about her. I like to encourage a 2-prong approach - things for just her and things for you both to share. On this list are some fun and thoughtful things to do for her, and some exciting date ideas to do with her.
Supporting her individually and supporting your partnership are great ways to build a lasting relationship!
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Showing your girlfriend you care doesn't have to take a lot of time or money. Usually, it takes a pretty small effort to make a BIG impact.
The real message you're trying to get across: I value you, I want to care for your needs, and I think about you even when we're not together. These small actions will tell her all that, and more!
Here are the 17 best things to do for your girlfriend:
This romantic gesture will make her feel loved and safe.
But make sure it's not mistaken for THAT ring, unless you're ready!
Knowing that you miss her even when you're busy lets her know she is wanted.
Never show up empty-handed - keep her pantry and fridge stocked with her faves.
A truthful "thank you" is a gift in itself.
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Warm soup, a movie, and snuggles can fix a lot of ailments.
Offer to try knitting, or cycling, or painting! She'll love the company.
Buy one of those cloches to make it really special!
There are tons of templates online! Think of some unique gifts she can redeem.
She'll be delighted by the sweet surprise!
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Surprise her from beginning to end, without her asking for it.
Unless she's telling you something really important - this move is as sweet as it gets.
You may be surprised how quickly any tension diffuses.
She could be a supermodel, but she still wants to hear it! Every day!
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Always open her door, pull out her seat, and always use your manners!
Maybe you've been dating a while - don't let that date night slip!
It's good advice to talk up your girl to anyone who will listen. It's good for you both.
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Most guys think girls are attracted to macho men, and that's true - to a point. We do want a guy that is sure of himself and confident, but we really get blown away by a man with a sensitive side.
These sweet things to do for your girlfriend will let her see that gentle heart under the strong exterior, and there is almost nothing more attractive to a girl than that.
Here are 18 sweet things to do for your girlfriend:
When she knows you paying attention, she'll feel even more connected to you.
Take out the trash, run the vacuum - help her reset for the next day.
Check in, especially on a stressful day.
It's an exercise in precision for you, and a luxury for her!
Put on some wave sounds, turn off the light - and don't forget to tuck her in!
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Ask her to go for a run or to a yoga class! If she exercises regularly, this is a great way to build a connected rhythm.
Get an extra charger setup in the living room or car so she can always plug it in.
This is a great way to make a dull day bright!
This takes something BIG and important off her plate!
Just make sure no one else can hear, or she may get embarrassed.
You maybe have to plan in advance for this - so start pursuing some ticket sites.
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Fancy flowers, wildflowers, potted flowers - they all tell her you're thinking of her.
Flip it over - show her she has your full attention.
Girls love a good snuggle.
Keep them on hand, so when she mentions she's craving one, you're ready!
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The smaller, the better! It tells her that you notice the details.
Does her hair look really nice that day? Tell her!
This frees up more time for her to spend with you!
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Relationships are complex and have several roles. You want to be friends, allies, co-leaders, but at the heart of it is a romantic partner. If you really want to sweep her off her feet, plan some romantic things to do for your girlfriend.
These small acts will remind her of your love and reassure her that you will always be head over heels for her.
Here are 20 romantic things to do for your girlfriend:
There's something about hearing the voice you love first thing in the morning.
Even if you argue, even if you're busy - it's worth it.
We call it "fancy bath" in our house and it is magical. Don't forget a fluffy warm towel!
If you can't get it there, order a drop off service with something to tide her over.
Even (or especially!) if it's not your favorite, she'll feel the love.
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No extras - this shows her that you think about taking care of her and not just what you can get from her.
This is especially nice if she's super practical - have it all arranged so she can just soak it up.
There's nothing sweeter than sliding into the driver's seat to see a little post-it, and it takes exactly 30 seconds to prepare.
What this really takes is some intuition and active listening. Did she admire someone's sweater? Mention a new song she heard on Spotify? Use those little clues to get her something she'll love.
This is always a winner!
Plan ahead with some sweet snacks and a blanket to make a date of it.
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A great way to start a special day!
Like yelling your love from the rooftops, she'll be beaming from ear to ear.
This protective action is sweet and reassuring without being domineering.
It doesn't have to be expensive, just take her to a little dessert place you found.
Those little "hellos!" are a wonderful way to connect.
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Say something like, "Our favorite song came on and I missed you."
This simple move shows her you cherish her and you're not gonna let her slip away.
Show up at her place with all the ingredients for her favorite meal or one of your specialties!
Cue some music in your kitchen and ask her to dance. This sweet move never fails.
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All relationships need some fun and silliness! Coming up with cute things to do for your girlfriend every once in a while will keep stress at bay and keep you connected.
Did you know that doing new things together builds trust? Try some of these out and see just how special and synched up it makes her feel!
Here are 19 cute things to do for your girlfriend:
This would make a perfect anniversary gift!
Here's that trust-building I was talking about. Put out some feelers to get some ideas for an adventure!
This small show of love will pay back in spades! Plus, you don't have to watch the lastest rom-com! Bonus!
Pre-order it so it's there for publication day! Get it signed as an extra special surprise.
A monthly reminder that you want to dote on her is basically a love potion.
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This shows her you appreciate her effort, and lets her know you're a good partner!
Who doesn't love gift baskets? Pick a central theme to really impress her.
It's amazing how grabbing an extra bag of her favorite cookies can say "I see you!" so loudly.
Make sure she has an egg-cellent day! (That's a good one, you should use that.)
Let her know that she's worth the effort!
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Basically, every romantic movie has prepared you for this - write it down, so she can keep it and reread it.
Intimate, and fun! Try fruits, cookies, and marshmallows!
If she's mentioned she's always wanted a hedgehog, start planning how to get her the perfect fuzzy pal.
Letting her know that you remember the details of your love story tells her you treasure it.
Being a good listener fills a huge need in a girl's life.
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Studies show that Oxytocin - the love hormone - goes through the roof at this duration of physical touch.
Taking care of a task she loathes is a gift she'll remember (but, will probably expect again, so be ready!)
Working out all the knots will help her relax and that is always romantic.
I mentioned a romantic letter earlier, but even a regular ol' friendly letter is great, especially if one of you has to travel for work. Maybe pack a few in her suitcase!
Here is a downloadable and printable list of things to do for your girlfriend (right-click the image and select Save Image As...):
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I hope you took notes on your the best choice of things to do for your girlfriend! You may be surprised what a great return on investment these small tokens of love will bring!
So whether you are planning some interesting date ideas or just some thoughtful things to do to make her day brighter and life easier, every one of these is sure to tell her you care and win you serious boyfriend points!
One of the greatest discoveries a man makes, one of his great surprises, is to find he can do what he was afraid he couldn’t do.
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