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The gig line is one of the biggest style tricks that make you attractive to women.

Great, no problem. Let's move on...unless, like most men who weren't in the military, you've never heard of a gig line.

When learning how to dress well, it's easy to envy that clean, classy, attractive look men who have served can pull off, but most guys just assume it's something about the training and experience. In fact, a huge part of that look is simply getting the gig line right.

That's one of the style tips and rules every man should know, and yet, our military brothers and sisters have been keeping it from the rest of us.

Not any more. We've got all the details on just what a gig line is, why you need it, and how to pull it off. So, start getting classy by reading below.

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What Is A Gig Line?

One of the wonders of the gig line is that it is incredibly simple, and yet, most of us just have't been paying attention enough to make sure we're pulling it off.

The gig line is the straight line that should run from your top collar button on your shirt all the way down to the middle of your belt buckle, and then a little bit further to your fly.

We told you it was simple. When the seam of your shirt, your belt buckle, and the seam of your fly all line up, you immediately look more respectable, and more worthy of a bit of extra attention. The gig line suggests discipline, sharpness, and strength. That's why the military loves it, and it's why, subconsciously, most women love it, too.

Why Is The Gig Line So Important?

Have you ever looked in the mirror, felt like you looked sloppy, but couldn't put your finger on it? The shirt is ironed, the pants are ironed, the belt is new, and yet...something's off?

There's a very good chance that the whole problem was that your gig line was off. On some level, it doesn't matter if your gig line is off by a fraction of an inch or by half a foot, the resulting subconscious impression you give off is the same: this guy is a mess.

In fact, the slight misalignment may be far worse. At least if your lines are way off, you can pretend it's intentional. When your shirt just doesn't quite meet the middle of your belt buckle, or your fly somehow drifts a bit off to the side, you just look like you can't be bothered to try hard enough to look good.

And that look is never going to impress most women. Or most dudes.

How To Follow The Gig Line

Alright, the gig line is the secret to pulling off that clean, classy look that women love in military men. But how are you going to pull it off? Likely as not, you've tried to get the lines right on your outfits, only to walk out the door and find you're a mess all over again.

Not to fear, we've got all the steps you need to follow to pull off the gig line like you've been doing it for years, even if you're trying it out for the first time.

1. Buy some classy clothes

There's really no point trying to pull off a gig line when you're wearing a wrinkled, old hoodie that covers your belt and fly. To really get any use out of this advice, you need the clothes that really make this style look good.

So, invest some money in a suit, some dress shirts, and some extra dress pants. If you have the clothes and you follow the other steps, you'll immediately look a thousand times more impressive than you do in that hoodie.

2. Get friendly with an iron

One of the regrettable failures of modern mantelligence is the loss of the ability to use an iron. A lot of the classic classy look that men want to pull off and always fail at is just a combination of using an iron and a bit of step 2 (more on that in a moment).

If you've try to get your clothes to fall into a gig line and failed, it may be that you just aren't ironing them...or not ironing them properly. So, pull out the ironing board, plug the iron in, and get really familiar with that marvelous invention.

With a bit of steam, some water, and some practice, your clothes will magically lay just how you want them every time you put them on.

3. Work on your posture

All those straight lines aren't going to do you any good if you slouch around everywhere. The gig line is meant to really show off impressive posture. If you're standing tall, the gig line makes you look taller, stronger, and more in control. If you're slouching, no one is going to notice if your shirt and fly line up.

This is perhaps the hardest step because most of us have never been taught to stand and sit properly. It'll take some extra effort for a little while, regularly reminding yourself to straighten up, but once you have it down, it'll become subconscious, and you'll really be able to pull of this look.

4. Spend a little extra time in the mirror

If you have the clothes, the ironing technique, and the posture, all that you really need is to stand in front of a mirror for an extra few seconds and make sure everything is lined up properly.

Instead of dashing out of the house at the last second, give yourself a few minutes to get the gig line right. Then, walk around for a bit, sit down, really get comfortable in your clothes, and check again to make sure you're still all lined up.

5. Grab a yard stick

Hey, maybe you're worried that your eyes are crooked and your gig line will be off by a millimeter. No need to worry on that point. If you aren't 100% positive you've got the line right, pull out a yard stick and double check.

Unless you've somehow bent the yard stick, it'll give you a clear indication if your gig line is right.

More Tips How To Dress Well

Pulling off a perfect gig line isn't the end of your sartorial education. We've got plenty more tips to dressing well. Just check out these awesome articles for more?

  1. Get a degree in dress for success studies, so you can ace every interview and look like the money you're going to earn.
  2. Catch up on a primer to dress shoes 101 so your feet look as fancy as the rest of you.
  3. Make sure your coif is up to date by checking out the hairstyles for men that make you look great.

In Conclusion

When it comes down to it, the gig line is really indicative of most advice on how to dress well: it's simple and easy to pull off, you just have to know how to do it.

The great thing about style tricks that make you attractive to women is that you don't have to transform your life to make this work, you just have to put in that extra bit of effort in just the right area. Style tips and rules every man should know like this aren't hidden knowledge—the entire U.S. armed forces know it—they just don't come up for most guys when they're learning how to dress.

Now that you know, you can line up your gig just right, and start impressing everyone from the girls at the bar to the boss in the office.

And knowing is half the battle...

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124 Dress For Success Studies [2021] - Why you should dress well. https://www.mantelligence.com/dress-for-success-studies/ Tue, 04 Jun 2019 23:27:54 +0000 https://www.mantelligence.com/?p=18195 Dressing For Success Studies - main

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In this Dress For Success studies, we collected statistics from dozens of studies and surveys to come up with proven reasons you need to dress well.

Personally and professionally, there are dozens of reasons to dress well.

You'll be amazed at how important your clothing is to prospective employers... and prospective dates. Armed with this information, we created a list of style tips and rules for men that can help you look great in any situation.

The way you dress sends messages about who you are before anything you say or do, meaning your style is the most important tool you have in forming the first impression. Whether your goal is impressing an interviewer or arousing interest in a date, the way you dress matters... and understanding the unwritten rules of style could be key to dressing for success.

So if your wardrobe consists of hand-me-downs and clearance rack finds, it might be time to see all the benefits that come with putting effort into your style and learn about the reasons you should dress well.

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Dress For Success Studies

For many men, work is a place where we don't think about our attire. Other than making sure we follow our company's guidelines, we don't put much effort into our dress.

As the statistics in this section show, your career might be in a much better place if you did. Check out what employers and interviewers had to say about how their employees dress, and how your dress can impact some pretty big decisions.

Chances On Getting Hired

  • Attractive people are 72.32% more likely to be called back for a second interview. (Statistic Brain, 2016)
  • Attractive people earn an average 10% higher salary. (Statistic Brain, 2016)
  • For 95% of employers surveyed, personal appearance is a contributing factor when determining whether an applicant is suitable for the job. (Forbes, 2015)
  • From over 2099 hiring managers and human resource professionals surveyed, 23% of the employers recommended job seekers to wear something blue for the job interview and 15% recommended black, while 25% said orange is the worst color and is associated as being unprofessional. (Career Builder, 2013)
  • 27.5% said good grooming and style of clothes show a candidate's interest in the position.
  • Of 10,525 people surveyed, 76.4% believe that employers decide on whether to hire a candidate based on his appearance. (Bayt, 2013)
  • 82% of employees believe they should 'dress to impress'. (Advisory, Conciliation and Arbitration Service, 2012)
  • Applicants with a polished, professional appearance receive 20% higher starting salary replies. (Fox News, 2011)
  • Of 1085 men and women surveyed, 75% of people believe well dressed men are more successful. (Well Dressed Men Survey, 2011)
  • 55% said a man's clothing is a measurement of his level of success.
  • Of over 924 men and women surveyed, 64% believe that attractive people have an easier time looking for a job.
  • Respondents rated being attractive as a 63% advantage of getting the job and a 58% advantage on getting promoted. (Newsweek, 2010)

Men Who Dress Well Earn More

  • Very attractive people earn 22% more than their average looking peers. (Research in Social Stratification and Mobility, 2016)
  • Attractive employees earn an average of roughly 5% more while unattractive employees earn can earn almost 9% less than average. (Forbes, 2013)
  • A person can earn 5% more just by wearing professional attire. (Men's Health, 2012)
  • There’s about a 10 to 15% difference in earnings between the most and least attractive employees in a group. (Cornell University, 2011)
  • Attractive men earn 10% more on salary compared to their less appealing colleagues. (Beauty and the Labor Market, 1993)

Getting Promoted

  • Putting in the effort to dress 25% better helps you stand out in the work place. (Forbes, 2016)
  • 93% of executives said that an employee’s style of clothes influences his chances of getting promoted. (Washington Post, 2015)
  • 72% of hiring managers said that wearing professional attire can somewhat affect an employee's chances of getting promoted. (Office Team, 2013)
  • Attractive political candidates receive 20% more votes than unattractive candidates. (Business Insider, 2013)
  • Of 10,525 people surveyed, 83.4 % believe that a person's appearance is linked to his success. (Bayt, 2013)
  • 78.6% said well groomed professionals have better career growth compared to average looking professionals. (Bayt, 2013)
  • 41% of employers said they often promote people who dress better. (Career Builder, 2009)
  • 55% of workers in the financial sector say employees who dress well are more likely to be promoted than others.
  • 51% of sales representatives believe that dressing well can be a factor in earning promotions.
  • 33% of manufacturing employers and 37% of IT employers say that professional attire is a contributing factor in deciding whether or not an employee gets promoted.

How Your Clothes Impact First Impressions

  • According to a 2010 survey, 35% of respondents said their appearance is linked to their identity. (Allure, 2016)
  • 33% said they wanted to look trustworthy, 27% wanted to look cool, 20% wanted to wanted to be seen as sophisticated or business-like, while 20% were unsure.
  • Of 15 men surveyed, 67% said their clothes represent their identity, 20% said clothes somewhat represented their identity, 7% said their choice of clothes didn't represent their identity, and another 7% said they didn't care. (Fashion and Textiles, 2015)
  • Of 1000 men surveyed, 60% of men who tuck in their shirts were happier in their jobs, 22% were more optimistic, 19% had higher income, and 8% dated more often. (Men's Journal, 2015)
  • Of more than a 1,000 men surveyed, 66% said wearing a suit makes them feel confident, 62% said it makes them feel successful, 43% said more intelligent, 58% feel more attractive, and 34% feel sexier. (Men's Wearhouse, 2013)
  • Of 10,525 people who responded to polling, 75.8% enjoy dressing up for work and taking care of their appearance. (Bayt, 2013)
  • In a survey of 10,000 men and women from 12 countries, 70% of male participants maintained their appearance to be happy with themselves. (Synovate, 2008)
  • Of 2497 men and women surveyed, 64% said they first notice a person's attractiveness. (Allure, 2016)
  • 55% of a person's initial opinion about a person is based on the other's appearance. (Reuters, 2014)
  • Of more than 1,000 men surveyed, 92% said wearing a suit makes a good first impression in professional situations while 86% said suits make a good first impression in social events. (Men's Wearhouse, 2013)
  •  24% of survey respondents said clothes are the basis of their first impressions. (Pop Sugar, 2007)
  • Of 4,600 people surveyed, 56% admitted that they judge a person based on what they wear. (Salary, 2011)
  • 93% of a person's impression is based on how the other looks and sounds. (Lifehack)
  • Of 2497 men and women surveyed, 64% of people said strangers were much more helpful because of their appearance and 62% said their appearance has resulted in better service in stores. (Allure, 2016)
  • 63% of TV viewers said they prefer male presenters wearing ties. (Telegraph, 2014)
  • Of more than a 1,000 men surveyed, 48% said when wearing a suit people seem to view them positively, 42% said people take them more seriously, 32% said people are nicer, and 31% said people are more trusting. (Men's Wearhouse, 2013)
  • Of 10,525 people surveyed, 63.5% said they feel judged based on what they look like and their clothes. (Bayt, 2013)
  • 60.2% said it is very important to look well groomed, confident, fit, energetic, and happy at work. (Bayt, 2013)
  • 65% of people respect colleagues in a suit. (ACAS, 2012)

Women Are Attracted to Men Who Dress Well

The office isn't the only place that dressing well can pay off. Our Dress For Success studies show women pay close attention to the way men dress, and choosing the right outfit can be the key to making a great first impression.

With these Dress For Success studies, you can find out how women feel about different attire and use that information to plan your outfit for the first date or a night on the town. No matter what your personal style is, you can learn how to make it work for you and use it to attract women.

11 Clothes Women Find Sexy on Guys

  • In online dating, Women were 3.5 times more likely to message a guy who wears a tailored suit and 2.3 times more likely to view his dating profile. (Hive & Colony and OkCupid, 2013)
  • Of 1085 men and women surveyed, 62% of women find men in a suit professional, 60% find them more handsome, 52% said they looked sophisticated, 52% said successful. (Well Dressed Men Survey, 2011)
  • 78% of women believe that dressing well is the hottest thing a man can do, 85% think that a man who dresses well is sexier than a man who has a lot of money, and 42% said they looked even more mature. (Well Dressed Men Survey, 2011)
  • 63% of women prefer a man in a suit to a man in a uniform.
  • 80% of women are willing to end a relationship to have a better dressed partner.
  • 64% of Americans surveyed believe that women are more likely to marry a man who is well dressed than someone who is not. (Well Dressed Men Survey, 2011)
  • Of 10,000 men and women surveyed, 1 in 3 women said their partner's appearance is very important to them. (Synovate, 2008)
  • Of more than 200 women surveyed, 60.9% want men to wear chukka boots, 15.6% think men should wear Chelsea boots, 14.6% find boat shoes attractive, and 8.5% said loafers on men are attractive. (GQ, 2016)
  • In a survey of 800 women about first date attire, 56% want men to wear “something casual but chic," 27% want "casual Friday style" (khakis or dress pants, dress shirt), 7% prefer men to go casual (jeans, T-shirt, hoodie), 6% want men to wear what they wore from work (suit or blazer, minus the tie). (Men’s Health, 2015)
  • Of 3,133 American online shoppers surveyed, 47% of women prefer men to wear casual, 27% said it doesn't matter what he wears, 12% prefer business casual, 12% wanted the guy to wear a suit, and only 3% want men to wear something sporty, professional, or sexy. (PriceGrabber, 2013)
  • From 387 women surveyed, 19.6% of women are very attracted to men wearing a suit on the first date. (Bows-N-Ties, 2013)

1 on Underwear

  • Of 200 women surveyed, 64.5% prefer boxer briefs on a man, 19.5% prefer boxers on a man, 11.5% like trunks best, and only 5% find briefs attractive. (GQ, 2016)

2 on Pants

  • Of 800 women surveyed about their preferences for men's pants, 54% prefer faded vintage style jeans, 85% want flat front pants, 34% want dark, clean denim jeans, 5% want tight, George Michael-style jeans, 4% want baggy, hip-hop-style pants, and 3% want men in ripped, rock 'n' roll style pants. (Men’s Health, 2015)
  • 80.6% of women prefer Levi’s on a man, 6.5% prefer chinos, 9.7% prefer suit pants, and 3.2% said they prefer men to wear board shorts. (Esquire, 2006)

2 on Shirts

  • Of 1000 people surveyed, 32% of women like suspenders and 68% like plaid shirts on men. (Ebay Deals, 2014)
  • 42% said the plain white tee is their favorite on a guy, 41.9% prefer a dress shirt with French cuffs, 12.9% want men wearing a short sleeved polo, and only 3.2 % want their man in a revealing tank top. (Esquire, 2006)

1 on Suits

  • 51.6% of women said their favorite type of suit jacket for men is the three button, 32.3% prefer the two button jacket, 9.7% prefer the double-breasted, while 3.2% said the Sailor's suit. (Esquire, 2006)

4 on Shoes

  • Of 800 women surveyed on what shoes men should wear more often, 26% said leather loafers, 15% said wingtip dress shoes, 14% said trainers, 13% said running shoes, 9% said leather sandals, 8% said rubber flip flops, and only 7% said cowboy boots. (Men’s Health, 2015)
  • 35.5% of women believe men look best in sneakers, 6.5% said suede bucks, and 19.4% said a shiny pair of dress shoes look best. (Esquire, 2006)
  • Of more than 200 women surveyed on what to wear on weekends, 46.3% said slip on sneakers, 24.8% want men to wear boat shoes, 20.1% said desert boots, and 8.9% prefer men to wear driving loafers. (GQ, 2016)
  • From more than 200 women surveyed, 40.7% said wearing cap toe dress shoes makes the best impression at the office, 29.4% said plain toe dress shoes, 22% prefer wing tip shoes, and only 7.9% believe men should wear monk straps to make a best impression at the office. (GQ, 2016)

 Men on Buying Clothes

Want to know how your shopping behavior compares to other men?

Keep up with current trends and habits with these stats about men's shopping behavior. Whether it makes you recognize your shoe addiction or reveals how much more every other dude is shopping, this information can help guide your purchasing decisions.

13 Spending Habits of Men

  • Men spend an average of $35 per month on clothing. (Statistic Brain, 2017)
  • In 2015, 77% of American men purchased casual clothes, 73% bought jeans, 43% bought suits, and 40% purchased sport coats. (Mintel, 2016)
  • 66% of men believe they are stylish while 52% choose to dress for comfort.
  • In 2014, there was a 52% increase in sales of luxury timepieces, a 39% increase in footwear sales, 40% increase in small leather goods, and 24% increase in sales of luxury bags. (Euromonitor, 2015)
  • 26% of men ages 25-34 buy clothes of the latest fashion. (Mintel, 2015)
  • 1% of the menswear market is dedicated to the bespoke suit industry. (CNBC, 2015)
  • 25% of global sales in 2013 were men's wear. (Euromonitor, 2014)
  • There was a 9% increase in the overall sale of men’s accessories from 2013 to 2014. (NPD, 2014)
  • Men have the 2nd highest average annual expenditures on apparel, footwear, and related products and services from 1985–2010. (Bureau of Labor Statistics, 2012)
  • In 2007, there was a 17% increase in sales of men’s custom and made-to-measure suits. (Forbes, 2008)
  • 63% of men own 10 pairs of shoes or less. (Time, 2006)
  • On average, men own 12 pairs of shoes. (Time, 2006)
  • 4% have more than 50 pairs. (Time, 2006)

6 Factors in Buying Clothes

  • Of 1, 232 men surveyed, 63% go shopping to update their wardrobe. (The Boutique at Ogilvy’s Full Male Shopping Report, 2016)
  • Of 2000 people surveyed, 80% of men didn't like shopping with their partners and 45% avoid shopping at all costs. (Psychology Today, 2014)
  • Of 1085 men and women surveyed, 52% of men buy suits for a special occasion, 37% for weddings, 32% for interviews, 30% for a new job, 25% because they lost or gained weight,
  • 36% of men enjoy dressing up and 25% love impressing others.
  • 60% of men said shopping for clothes is a necessity, 50% find it fun, and 56% hate shopping for clothes.
  • 48% of men experience problems while shopping compared to 53% of women.(Knowledge @Wharton, 2007)

Grooming Statistics

Dressing nice is half the battle, but taking good care of your personal hygiene is the other half.

A lot of men feel lost shopping for grooming products, and feel silly spending even a few minutes in the bathroom using them. But with findings from a variety of studies, the statistics below show us how important grooming is and what kinds of grooming men (and women) are into.

Use our studies to shop more boldly and feel more comfortable putting effort into your appearance. After all, it's your body... you should take some pride in it.

10 Personal Products Men Use

  • Of 600 men surveyed, 89% use shower gel, 87% prefer to use hair wax or gel for hairstyling, and 68% of men prefer a razor for shaving. (Men's Health, 2016)
  • Of men surveyed, 80% use grooming products. (NPD, 2015)
  • 69% use hair care products, 54% are shaving products users, 49% use body skin care products, and 22% use facial skin care products .
  • 19% look for specific gender hair products, 42% use facial moisturizers, and 21% use hand and nail products
  • 59% of American men use personal care products for boosting their self esteem, 37% use facial cleansers, 22% use exfoliating scrubs, 17% use anti-aging products, and 12% use eye creams.
  • 63% of adult males ages 18-64 wear fragrance occasionally, 23% say they use it all of the time. (NPD, 2013)
  • 40% of men who wear cologne own just one bottle. (NPD, 2013)
  • 72% of male fragrance wearers started using fragrance when they were 17 years old or younger. (NPD, 2013)
  • Almost 40% of male teen fragrance wearers, ages 13-17, were influenced by their fathers and most chose to wear a fragrance to impress a girl. (NPD, 2013)
  • Of 6,600 online consumers surveyed, more than 5% of men spend 5 minutes or less grooming, 24% spend 6-15 minutes, 35% spend 15-30 minutes, 29% of men spend 30 minutes to an hour a day, and only 5% spend an hour or more. (Euromonitor International Personal Appearance Survey, 2014)

4 Benefits of Good Grooming

  • 91% of employers interviewed believe grooming and what an applicant wears shows his attitude towards the company, while 95% said personal appearance affects their opinion of the applicant's suitability for the job. (LinkedIn, 2015)
  • There's a 4% increase in average earnings for minority men who allot at least 80 minutes of personal grooming everyday. (Live Science, 2011)
  • Of employers surveyed, 73% said grooming has a lot of influence in hiring a candidate, 21% said grooming had only a slight influence, and only 6% said it does not affect whether they hire a person or not. (National Association of Colleges and Employers, 2006)
  • Roughly 90% of the impression you make is based on your clothing, the other 10% is based on how grooming of unclothed areas (hair, skin, nails, etc.) (Dress for Success, 1986)

 Impact of Clothes Studies

Your clothes impact every area of your life... whether you like it or not.

The good news is that the impact of your clothes doesn't have to be a mystery. Using these Dress For Success studies you can find out how to dress in ways that send the messages you want to the people you want to send them to.

Getting hired

  • There's only a 62.92% chance an unattractive person will be contacted for a second interview. (Statistic Brain, 2016)
  • Of 501 hiring managers surveyed, 75% said wearing the wrong clothes is the number one mistake millennials make. (Forbes, 2012)
  • 57% of hiring managers said that qualified but unattractive candidates have a much harder time getting hired. (Newsweek, 2010)
  • Of 900 UK hiring managers surveyed, 37% of hiring executives said they have decided not to hire someone based on how they dressed. (The Guardian, 2009)
  • 87% of employers said job applicants wearing nontraditional attire for an interview negatively affected their decision to hire that person. (NACE, 2006)
  • 69% of hiring managers surveyed said dressing inappropriately is the largest turn off about applicants. (Career Builder)

Getting Promoted

  • Of 2,175 hr managers surveyed about aspects of appearance most likely to prevent them from promoting an employee, 44% said provocative clothes, 43% said wrinkly clothes and unkempt appearance, 32% said nontraditional piercings, 27% said too casual attire, 27% said visible tattoos, 25% said an unprofessional haircut, and 24% said unprofessional facial hair. (Career Builder, 2015)
  • Unattractive employees miss out on up to almost 9% on salary. (Forbes, 2013)
  • Men who are least attractive make 13% less salary than average. (Beauty Pays, 2011)
  • 37% of men believe that there is a connection between appearance and earning potential. (Harvard Business Review, 2011)

On Relationships

  • According to 71% of women, disheveled appearance in men is a turn off. (Relationship Deal-breakers: Traits People Avoid in Potential Mates, 2015)
  • Of 5,481 individuals surveyed, 58% of women judge men based on their clothes. (Match, 2013)
  • Of 2000 people surveyed, 28% of women admitted to rejecting a date because of what the man wore and 31% said they have demanded their man change his clothes before going out in public because they're embarrassed to be seen with them. (Ariel, 2012)
  • Of 2000 women surveyed, 59% intervened with their man’s clothes because of their dry sense of style, 18% because their man’s clothes were outdated or ageing, 31% because his clothes were ill fitting and unstylish, while 19% intervened because their man’s clothes were embarrassing. (Very, 2012)
  • 37% of men in a relationship don't shop for their own clothes and about 48% are clueless of their sizes.
  • 26% of men only buy clothes when their existing clothes are worn out.
  • Women perceive the average man as giving up on his appearance by the time they turn 37.
  • 60% of women said that clothes are the top dating deal breaker, next is a man's haircut and the style of his shoes. (Medical Daily, 2012)
  • Of 1085 men and women surveyed, 9% of women would not consider going on a second date with a man who doesn't dress well, 29% considered breaking up with someone with bad choice of clothes, 31% of women were embarrassed because of what their man wore, and 32% of women admitted to having thrown their man's clothes away without telling them. (Well Dressed Men Survey. 2011)

Dress Code Violations

  • Of more than 300 senior managers surveyed on most common dress code violations, 47% cited wearing clothes that are too casual, 32% said showing too much skin, 6% responded having visible tattoos or piercings, 5% said ungroomed facial hair, 4% said wearing too many accessories, and 3% listed extreme hair styles. (Office Team, 2016)
  • More 53% of employers have sent employees home for not following the dress code. (CNN, 2008)

3 Fashion Mistakes Men Make Statistics

If dressing well can lead to your success, it only makes sense that dressing badly would have the opposite effect.

As you can see from the info below, most of the biggest fashion mistakes men make come down to being lazy dressers. Use this last section of our Dress For Success studies as a guide for clearing out your closet, and the sections above as a list of items to fill that empty space.

  • Of 1000 people surveyed about the worst men's fashion mistakes, 20% said over accessorizing, 19% said wearing shirts with childish graphics and phrases, 12% said mixing patterns that don't match, 11% said using a backpack when wearing professional attire, 10% said suits that don't fit right, 9% said wearing running shoes with jeans, and 6% said wearing ill fitting shirts. (eBay, 2015)
  • Of 4512 people surveyed about the worst men's fashion faux pas, 36.8% said sock crimes like socks with sandals or wearing white socks with dress shoes, 11.6% said dress shirts with street wear prints, 15.8% said wearing tight jeans, 8.3% dressing like a pirate, 4.9% said poor dapper look, 4.9% said combining jeans and a suit jacket, 5.9% said wearing glasses to look more intelligent intelligent, 7.1% said adding a tie to casual wear, and 2.5% said wearing age inappropriate sunglasses. (Stuff, 2012)
  • In a survey about the most common clothing mistakes, 32.3% of women said men wearing pants that are too short, 25.8% said wearing socks with dress shoes and a suit that's too big. (Esquire, 2006)

In Conclusion

If you've ever felt a rush of confidence when trying on a new suit or gotten up from the barbers chair feeling refreshed and renewed, you know that there are multiple reasons to dress well.

Knowing how to dress for success and groom yourself properly can make you feel more confident, competent, ambitious, and attractive... but it's not only you that feels that way. The impact your style has on your boss and your lady are two more proven reasons you need to dress well.

This Dress For Success studies is an evidence-based list of style tips and rules for men and see the impact dressing well can have on you.

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How To Kiss On First Date - 7 Easy techniques. Guaranteed! https://www.mantelligence.com/kiss-on-first-date/ Mon, 13 Aug 2018 22:48:27 +0000 https://www.mantelligence.com/?p=29901 kiss on first date - post

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The first date doesn't guarantee a kiss, but it's always smart to be prepared.

If you're wondering how to get a girlfriend, that kiss on first date is definitely a big part of it. Even if you're not actively pursuing a relationship, just knowing how to kiss a girl is a valuable skill for any guy to have.

That's where this guide comes in.

These first date tips help you to make a winning first impression so you get that call back for a second date. After all, kiss on first date, a well-timed and placed smooch can go a long way in helping her to fall for you. Read on to learn about proper first date protocol.

I recommend reading through all of these 7 steps to find your absolute favorites... but if you’re looking for something specific, you can click the links below to jump to that section:

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Should You Kiss On a First Date?

First things first -- should you kiss on first date? The answer is that it depends. First and foremost, don't go into the date assuming that a kiss is guaranteed. Plenty of girls don't like to kiss a guy until they're sure, and that can take multiple dates.

At the same time, if everything goes well, there's always a chance that kissing is on the horizon. That's when you need to do some strategic planning.

There are pros and cons to kissing on first date. Besides the obvious fact that kissing is fun, a kiss can show her that you're genuinely interested in her.

On the other side of the coin, if you rush into things too fast, she may think that you're pushing too hard or that you're only interested in her for her looks.

The best approach is to play it by ear and use other ways of communicating how you feel too. Body language goes a long way in showing your interest in her, and you can also just tell her straight-up that you're having a great time with her and that you want to do it again.

In short, if you decide to kiss her, make sure she knows that you mean it. That's what makes her want to kiss you again.

How To Kiss On First Date: 7 Steps

So you're going to go for the elusive first-date kiss. You only get one shot to make kissing on the first date with a new girl really count, so make sure you do it right.

That said, you don't want to overthink it either. Sometimes you just have to let your instincts take over.

1. Know These Tips For Kissing On First Date

First things first -- brush up on your technique with these kissing tips:

  1. Freshen up. If you sense that a kiss is in the cards, make sure you're prepared physically. If possible, duck to a bathroom and make sure your hair looks good, there's no food on your face, and that your breath is minty fresh.
  2. Calm down. Yes, the first kiss can be scary, but try to be calm, cool, and collected. After all, you don't want to be hyperventilating while you're locking lips. This is a kiss, not mouth-to-mouth.
  3. Timing is everything. Don't rush the kiss. Wait until the perfect moment. That moment might be after you say something sweet to her, at the end of the night, or it might not come at all. There's no pressure, so don't get desperate.
  4. Start slow. The first kiss should be simple, quick, and sweet. Save the tongue for the makeout session.
  5. Leave her wanting more. Kissing is fun for her too. Leave some to the imagination so she comes back for more.

2. How To Kiss A Girl On A First Date (For The First Time)

So you want to know how to kiss a girl for the first time. The simple truth is that every girl and every situation is different, so you're going to need to feel it out and make some decisions on the fly. With that in mind, there are ways to improve your odds.

  1. Set the mood. Bring her somewhere awesome, wear something nice, and be flirty throughout the date.
  2. Flirt with her. Make lots of eye contact, and touch her gently while you talk to her. If she responds positively and flirts back, she may be thinking about kissing you too.
  3. Be direct. One of the easiest and most effective ways to make kissing on first date happen is just to ask her. Girls really appreciate direct honesty. If she declines, that doesn't necessarily mean she never wants to kiss you. She may just need some time.
  4. Wait for the right time. You may also need to rely on body language. Eye contact is a big one. If you're in a suitable setting for a kiss, and you see that she's giving you those doughy eyes, it may be time to move in slowly for the kiss. Be bold when the opportunity strikes, but make sure that she's giving you the social cues to proceed.

3. How To Get Her To Kiss You On First Date

You know what's less scary than kissing a girl? Getting her to kiss you! Of course, it's knowing how to get a girl to kiss you that's the hard part.

Now, of course, there's no magic word you can say that will make her kiss you. You can, however, put the power in her hands by telling her that you're interested in kissing her, but you don't want to rush or pressure her.

If she wants to kiss you, you just gave her the green light. If she kisses you, congratulations. If not, she may not be ready just yet, so don't feel bad about it. She knows you want to kiss her, so the ball is in her court.

4. What To Do If She Denies The Kiss

It happens to every guy at some point -- everything is going perfect, and then she pulls away at the last minute. First of all, don't panic. Yes, it's awkward, but it's no big deal. You misread the situation. It happens.

Laugh it off. She's going to be feeling a bit awkward too, so just accept the situation for what it is.

Just because she didn't return your kiss doesn't necessarily mean she's not into you. She might just not be ready.

Communicate with her. Maybe she just got out of a relationship, or maybe she wants to take it slow with you. Talk to her, and be sensitive to her feelings. Never get angry -- that's only going to guarantee that you never salvage the smooch.

5. How To Act After The Kiss

So now you locked lips with her, what's next? Your first reaction is going to be to keep kissing her. After all, kissing a girl you like feels good. Play it cool, and try to hold back.

There's nothing wrong with going for a second kiss if the first one was successful, but you don't want to be the guy slobbering after her trying to relive that moment over and over.

Save your kisses for the right moments. Don't play all your cards too soon. You want to leave her wanting more.

6. How To Get Her To Come Back To Your Place After The Date

Of course, you probably don't want to be swapping spit for too long in public, so if things are going well, it may be time to move to a more secluded location.

  1. Pop the question. ...no, not that question. "Want to come upstairs for a drink?" It's a classic end-of-the-date line in the movies, and it works in real life too. If you're hoping to make out with her, just invite her over at the end of the date. She'll probably know exactly what you're getting at beyond hydration.
  2. Relax. Although your intentions should be obvious, don't assume that her coming over is a guaranteed makeout session. Take it slow, and let her initiate the first move.
  3. Hang out. You've done your part at this point, and being in an unfamiliar place with a new guy can be a little scary for her. Set the mood, and then let her turn up the metaphorical heat if she wants to. Being too pushy is the best way to ruin your chances for a second date (and more kissing), so be a gentleman.

7. How To Make Out Like A Pro

If you're going to make out with her, you want to do it right, right? Follow these tips to up your kissing game.

  1. Move slow. You don't want to crash foreheads or bump teeth. Pretend you're in a slow motion movie, and maintain that pace. 
  2. Close your eyes. As you move in, pay attention to where her lips are, aim for them, and then close your eyes. Turning a make-out session into a staring contest can really kill the mood.
  3. Use your tongue. When your tongue inevitably finds its way into her mouth, you want to keep it moving -- not too fast and not too slow. Use rhythm circles, and then follow her lead. Don't get sloppy, greedy, or speedy.
  4. Keep your hands busy. While you don't want to grope her, you also don't want your hands hanging awkwardly like some sort of Frankenstein. You can put your hands on her waist, touch her shoulders, or hold the back of her head. Don't be too handsy, and pay attention to her body language to determine whether you should continue or keep your hands to yourself.

How to Kiss And Make Out With A Girl On the First Date

So now you know how to improve your chances of getting that first peck. Now, you may want to start thinking about what to do if you're interested in taking things to the next level.

If you're wondering how to make out with a girl, it's worth noting that every girl has her own making out style and preferences. The first make-out session may be a bit awkward and fumbly as you get a feel for each other's approach. Don't worry -- that's part of the fun!

A lot of the time, the first make-out happens naturally after the first kiss. After you plant one on her, try moving in a second time for a deeper kiss. If the first one went well, there's a good chance she'll be ready for some making out.

Don't wait too long for the window to close after that first kiss. If you can see that she enjoyed the first kiss, go for the second. Make this one a bit more passionate -- maybe caress her face or hair -- and then incorporate a little bit of tongue to see how she responds. If she reciprocates, you're good to go.

Remember: when it comes to tongue-kissing, often less is more. Keep it neat, and then follow her lead.

More Tips On How To Get The Girl

Now that you're a bonafide debonair smooching extraordinaire (or at least something close to it), you may want to also boost other aspects of your game. Follow these tips to get the girl:

  1. If you want to kiss her, you need to know how to ask a girl out.
  2. When you know how to get a girl to like you, kissing becomes a whole lot easier.
  3. Before you can even think about kissing, you need to know how to flirt with a girl.

In Conclusion

The kiss on first date approach isn't guaranteed, so don't stress if you strike out. If you want to know how to kiss a girl and even how to get a girlfriend, the truth is that sometimes you need to take it slow.

Girls are smart, especially when it comes to dealing with guys. If she doesn't want to kiss you just yet, it doesn't mean you've failed. In fact, she may be purposely waiting because she genuinely likes you and wants you to respect and pursue her.

Be mindful, respectful, and understanding. These first date tips are for helping you to form a genuine connection with her, and kissing is just a small part of that. If it's meant to be, the kiss will happen in time.

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7 Things Girls Wish Guys Knew - Don't turn her off! https://www.mantelligence.com/things-girls-wish-guys-knew/ Thu, 19 Apr 2018 15:00:53 +0000 https://www.mantelligence.com/?p=31130 7 Things Girls Wish Guys Knew - Post

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Most of us guys know:

There are a (seemingly) infinite number of things girls wish guys knew about them... and about what they want.

Now:

The specifics differ from girl to girl but some universal things you simply cannot slack on... or mess up.

...And while we can't help you with exact that your girl wants... we can help you with those universal things that all women wish guys knew.

So... here are  7 things (almost) all girls wish guys knew that if you take care of, will dramatically help you get the girl... and keep her.

Note from the Editor, Kyle: Huge thanks to Anson Belt & Buckle for partnering with us to make this post possible. Anson is the only holeless belt that I recommend and wear every day.

What is this?

7. More Than Anything, Girls Hate Dishonesty (and If You Do It, You'll Lose Her)

The interesting thing about lies is that they tend to build on each other and snowball out of control if you tell a lot of them.

Something I've found in my 28 years of life is that in almost 100% of cases, you're better off telling the truth. Telling the truth ensures you're not carrying around the burden of a lie and you don't have to keep tabs on which lies you told who.

This is especially true when dealing with women.

Sure, you can lie to the girl you like, but what would the cost be if she found out?

Look... when you lie to one, you're basically (and obviously) telling her that you can't be trusted. And trust is the main ingredient to a healthy and understanding relationship.

...So get in the habit of being honest. Being honest (especially when it's hard) shows recognition for your words and actions. And no matter the situation, she'll be grateful you told the truth and respect you more for it.

Plus as an added bonus: you'll have a clean conscience... and won't have to look over your shoulder.

6. The Belt and Shoes Make the Man

You'll likely notice that any time we talk about 'how to get the girl'... we talk about style (and improving your style).

...And there's a simple reason for that: 

Girls are considerably more attractive to men who look good.

So... how can you quickly improve your overall style? Wear the right shoes, and the right belt.

Not only are these the first two things girls look at when analyzing a guy's style (they're two small details that have a huge overall impact)... but they also help you and your outfit look look immediately more put together (by wearing non-worn-down/ratty leathers... that are also matching).

Which shoes/belt should you get? Here are the two you see that we consistently recommend:

The Belt: Anson Belt and Buckle

The Anson Belt is a micro-adjustable, holeless belt (meaning instead of 5 holes, one-inch apart Anson belts use 30 ratchet-style notches 1/4 inch apart). 

For you: that means that you belt has 6x the options... making it significantly more comfortable. 

For her: that means that your belt doesn't look doesn't look like a ratty, torn, worn-down mess (not only do the notches distribute pressure more evenly... but more options also mean that you're never stretching your belt to fit into the next hole).

In short: this is the best belt for men on the market (more below).

The Shoes: Allen Edmond’s Strand Cap-Toe Oxfords

Allen Edmonds's Strand shoes have a detailed, perforated cap-toe detail that looks both incredibly stylish and undeniably manly.

...And when you pair that intricate detail with the sturdy, architectural structure of Allen Edmond’s shoe, you get an incredibly unique and eye-catching design that she will love.

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5. Laughter is Better than Giant Muscles (and Most other Things)

Don't get me wrong...

...If you bust your butt at the gym every week and it shows, great work, keep it up. It takes dedication and discipline to do that. Big muscles naturally attract girls so you're one step ahead of most guys.

But, to be clear:

Having a personality and being able to make them laugh is far more important to get the girl. It keeps her wanting more of you.

Here's the thing:

Women are emotional creatures. They're wired to be more in tune with their emotions, thoughts, and feelings than us guys. So of course, how a guy makes them feel plays an enormous part in whether or not he's good enough.

Having a sense of humor and being charming and fun to be around is one of the most successful methods of attracting girls. It is, in fact, one of the building blocks of knowing how to flirt with a girl.

Want to know why that's true?

It's because hen you make a girl laugh, you're showing her you know how to have a good time. It becomes clear that you don't take everything too seriously and enjoy spreading laughter wherever you go, and that makes you interesting to her. She'll want to get to know you a little better (if she's not already dating you.)

Pro tip: tell jokes, both good and bad... and don't be afraid to ask funny questions or random questions to get a reaction.

4. Get Piney

According to one study, college-age women ranked body odor as more important to attraction than everything but pleasantness.

What does that mean, for you? 

That, put simply, being a decent person and smelling good are what get the girl.

But I get it: 

With so many fragrances out there, it can be hard to tell which one will smell best on you. So before you pick the sweetest smelling fragrance you can find, think of what scent screams "Manliness."

Spoiler alert: It's pine.

Yep, smelling like you just chopped down a forest is as manly as it gets. Science says so. Whatever the reason, a man who smells like pine is viewed by women as more successful, intelligent, approachable, sanitary, and downright attractive.

So do some research into piney fragrances (start with our list of the best colognes for men) and try before you buy (there's no point in wasting your money on something you won't wear.) And if you realize that piney just isn't your style, pick what works for you.

At the very least, wear deodorant (here are the best deodorants for men) and scrub all your canyons in the shower (because as long as you don't smell like body odor and dried dirt, you're in good shape).

3. You Should ALWAYS Make the First Move

Note: if you're in a relationship, feel free to skip this one.

If you're single however, don't panic. Making the first move isn't as hard as it sounds (as long as you pay attention to her body language.)

Let me explain:

If a date is going well, there comes a time (or times if she likes you) where the girl tries to subtly make it clear that she wants you to make a move. The signs she likes you are all there... you just have to learn to recognize them.

... And if you notice any of those signs, you better move in for a kiss because if you don't... You run the risk of making her think you're not interested. Or worse: she thinks you're not interested... she'll quickly lose interest herself.

2. She Doesn't Want to Be Your Top Priority

It's often frustrating, but it's true:

When you like a girl a lot, it can be really hard to control your emotions and remember that you did things before you met her (especially if it's been a while since you've had a romantic interest.)

But speaking from experience, you have to back off and recognize when she needs her space.

Here's what I mean: When you make yourself too available to a girl, you're showing her that you don't have any other hobbies or interests besides her.

And that makes you boring.

So... if she hasn't responded to your last text, don't immediately send her another one. People don't always have their faces glued to their phones.

And when she tries to make plans with you, be sure to have some unavailable days where you're busy with something interesting like a martial arts class or volunteering at a local food ... shelter.

Being busy (but not too busy to make time for her) shows her you're an interesting guy who isn't going to be constantly blowing up her phone. Because a guy who can't seem to catch a hint that he's coming on too strong is a HUGE red flag.

Take it slow, stay busy, see what develops, and remember: it's not the end of the world if it doesn't work out.

1. Being a Nice Guy Doesn't Make You A "Nice Guy"

Nice guys... the ultimate source of women's frustrations with men.

...But what, exactly is a "Nice Guy?"

My slightly harsh definition: A socially awkward guy who constantly compares himself to other guys and struggles to grasp why his only redeeming quality of being a gentleman doesn't attract women.

...And before you get angry about that, you should know this:

I used to be a "Nice Guy." No, I never called women "M'lady" (and you shouldn't either)... but I struggled with talking to girls and often advertised myself to them as being a kind, gentle, understanding person.

But I didn't have anything else to offer. I didn't have hobbies, I didn't have anything interesting to say, and I often thought that if a girl didn't like me, there must be something wrong with her. But after a number of dates and reading countless articles on dating advice, I toned it down. I got better at understanding what girls are looking for in a guy...

...And I became that type of person.

I realized that, while I'm caring and kind, I can still be fun to interact with.

And that's literally all you have to do. Be a pleasant person (remember, women ranked that higher than smelling nice.) That means if a girl rejects you, don't get angry (because that's not very nice.) Instead, try to understand why she isn't interested.

It could be something you said or did, and you have to face those facts if you want to improve yourself and be the man that girls want.

If you can't pinpoint the reason, just ask her. She may give you a canned, "It just isn't working out" or she'll give you a specific reasonUse that information to rid yourself of any bad habits you may have and focus on being the most humble, honest, and caring man you can be.

And of course, make sure you're interesting and fun to be around!

PS: if you really want to avoid being the being the "Nice Guy" we've put together a video that can help.

In Conclusion

There are 7 things girls wish guys knew. Doing (or not doing) each these will make you dramatically more attractive to women (and will help you not only get... but also keep the girl).

Now:

To be clear... we're not recommending that you completely change yourself for a woman (really, you shouldn't)... but each of these will help you not only get the girl, but also (each in their own way) to become a better man.

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How to Instantly Have a More Attractive Face (10 Simple Tricks!) https://www.mantelligence.com/how-to-instantly-have-a-more-attractive-face/ Wed, 28 Mar 2018 19:37:05 +0000 https://www.mantelligence.com/?p=31048

Note from the editor, Kyle: Big thanks to Tiege Hanley for partnering with us to make this post/video possible. Tiege is the skincare system that I personally use and love. If you're looking to get a more attractive face, I highly recommend it.

Gentlemen, this is Mantelligence.  Today, we’re showing you 10 powerful tricks to get a better looking, more attractive face.

Contrary to what a lot of guys think, you don’t need the perfect bone structure, you don’t need piercing blue eyes, and you don’t need to be tall dark and handsome. Because if you use all of these 10 powerful tricks, you’ll have natural-looking, insanely attractive face that women will love.
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10 Tricks To Instantly Have a More Attractive Face

10. 5 O’Clock Shadow

Compared to a full beard, a clean-shaven face, or somewhere in between, the 5 o’clock shadow is perfect for adding an attractive, angular dimension to the face... while also creating the appearance of a strong jawline.

Think about it: The 5 o’clock shadow is basically the male equivalent of wearing makeup... except with less work.  The only thing to remember... is to just make sure your facial hair doesn’t get too long, or too short.

And if you can’t grow stubble thick enough to pull this one off? Don’t worry, because there’s plenty of other options on this list.

9. Top-Down Symmetry

Because nobody’s face is perfectly symmetrical, guys with more symmetrical features... are seen as more rare to women, than guys without them.

So for guys whose faces might be a little uneven, there’s a crafty way to create the illusion of symmetry, that starts from the top of your head, down.

See, by styling your hair in a way that contrasts the rounder aspects of your face, while still highlighting the squarer parts, you optimize your hairstyle to work with you, and not against you.

Not sure what style is best? The easiest way to do it is to visit a stylist or barber who knows what they’re doing.

And if you don’t have the hair for it? Try creating that same symmetry, with the right hat.

8. The Good Side

It may sound simple: But you can choose which side you present to girls.

Feel like that’s gotta be too easy? Think again.

As a guy, you get fooled almost everyday by women who only show you what they want you to see. And that trick, gentlemen, goes both ways.

So give it a shot. Pick which side you like best... and stick with it.

7. Standardized Skin Care

Here’s one thing we noticed:

It seems that all too often, guys will worry about how attractive their face looks, without doing anything about the most noticeable part of their face… their skin.

So, we’re going to say this plainly: Women LOVE guys with clean, clear, and attractive skin. How do you get skin that women love?

Try Tiege Hanley.

If you haven’t heard of them, then honestly… you must have just found YouTube. Tiege is guys like Alpha M, Based Zeus, and Antonio Centeno trick to getting skin women love.

See… using a GOOD standardized skincare system, like Tiege, does two HUGE things to make your face more attractive:

Trick #1: It helps remove + prevent acne

No duh, right?

Women are HUGELY more attracted to a man with clear skin, than one whose face is covered with acne.

...And just like soap cleans your body, Tiege’s face wash cleans your face of dirt, grime, and excess oil, helping to remove acne, and to keep your face acne free.

Trick #2: It keeps your skin moisturized

Most guys don’t realize the importance of ‘moisturized skin’... but, after acne-free skin, it’s probably the most important step to having an attractive face.

Moisturized skin looks healthy, and subconsciously to women, it looks attractive.

Tiege’s specially formulated moisturizer works to keep your moisturized, even while you sleep.

Bonus Trick: Combine face wash + moisturizer

And as a bonus trick to make your face more attractive:

Studies show the combined use of a face wash + a moisturizer increase acne-treatment efficacy by 97%!

In other words:

You need an effective skincare system... and just like the advice in our videos, Tiege Hanley actually works. They were even kind enough to give us an amazing discount code. Check it out in the description (the code is MANTRICKS20)… and note: it will only work for a limited-time.

Click here to check out Tiege Hanley.

6. Friendly Face Maneuvers

The human face has 43 muscles...ever wonder why?

A lot of guys think that just because the face is where the mouth is, and that the only communicating it needs to do is through verbal speaking. Not true. Without saying a word, your face can do a lot of talking (and flirting) on it’s own.

...And by being more friendly & approachable in general, animated faces are automatically more attractive.

So how can you have a more expressive face?

  1. Talk. Because if you’re not talking, moving your face might look a little weird.
  2. Smile. The best expression you can make a habit of doing, is smiling, no matter what. And 3?
  3. Learn to use your eyebrows. Because you may not realize it, But your brow line is the key to silent, unspoken communication.

5. Try Out Glasses

Even if you’ve got 20/20 vision, glasses just might be the way to make your face... 20/20x more attractive.

Here’s how it works:

While some of the tricks in this video focus on making your face more symmetrical, more masculine, or more healthy, wearing glasses has been scientifically proven to make faces seem more intelligent than they are.

4. Push Your Head Out In Pictures

Want an old photography trick that’ll not only take care of that pesky double chin, but also create an aesthetic angular face in your pictures? 

Try pushing your head forward toward the camera.

Yep, we’re serious. The pose is virtually undetectable in straight-on photos, while also creating the perfect illusion of a leaner face...especially around the jaw.

...Because even though a little bit of fat beneath the chin is normal, that doesn’t mean you’ve got to let it sneak into your pictures.

3. White Teeth

Can’t believe it took so long to get to this one?

Us neither. If you’re looking for an easy way to instantly gain a few points, whitening your teeth has to be the easiest way to do it.

Why? Because no matter what else might be “wrong” with your face, white teeth are a stand out feature that makes a great first impression, while also making your face more attractive to virtually any girl.

Don’t believe us?

Well, testing it is easy. Go to the store and grab a cheap whitening kit (or go big and go to the dentist). Apply a few times, and see how many compliments you get when you show your pearly whites.

2. Catch Some Z's

Ever hear from a girl “you look tired?”

Well what she was really saying... was that you’d look a whole lot better if you got some sleep.

Bet you missed that one huh? If there’s one thing any guy can do to instantly create a healthy, energetic, and attractive face... it’s get more sleep.

...And If you don’t already know, guys, not only is sleep the KEY to brightening up dull, drowsy faces to girls. It’s also the secret weapon to the kind of seize the day attitude that really makes you look good to women.

1. Exercise

A close relative to sleep and the number one trick to a more attractive face, is getting a fit body.

It’s scientifically proven: faces on in-shape bodies appear more attractive than face on unfit bodies.

Why? Because exercise alone hits every single quality of an facial attractiveness:

  1. It increases testosterone,
  2. It reduces facial fatty tissue which promotes symmetry,
  3. It’s been proven to improve mental clarity & confidence,
  4. And most of all.... it gives you the unmistakable light in your eye of strength and good health.

In Conclusion

Those are the 10 surefire tricks to a cleaner, healthier, more attractive face. If you enjoyed this video, let us know in the comments, give it a thumbs up and click and subscribe.

Don’t forget to get a HUGE discount on our sponsor Tiege Hanley, and thank you for supporting the brands that help make these videos possible.

Thanks for watching!

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How Watch Movements Work: Quartz vs Mechanical [Infographic] https://www.mantelligence.com/how-watch-movements-work/ https://www.mantelligence.com/how-watch-movements-work/#comments Thu, 02 Jun 2016 16:49:19 +0000 http://www.mantelligence.com/?p=9460 Have you ever wondered how your watch really works?

I mean... think about it:

How is it so accurate? What powers it? What tiny mechanics allow it to tell the time?

Look:

I've said it before, every man should wear a watch. And, I'm saying now, every man who wears that watch should know how it works.

But here's the thing:

Watches are incredibly complicated. We've touched on how they work (here and here), but without a visual aid... it's tough to really understand what's going on.

So... to help you see exactly what's going on inside of your watch, our designer put together this in-depth, but easy-to-understand animated infographic.

What will it show you?

It breaks down the two main types of watch movements (quartz and mechanical), shows you how to tell them apart (just by looking at them), and shows you a detailed breakdown of what makes each type of movement tick (step-by-step).

infographic - how watch movements work quartz vs mechanical

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In Conclusion

Watch mechanics are, and always will be, incredibly cool.

...And now that you understand how your watch works, you'll have a deeper, more educated, appreciate of what it really is and how it really does it.

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With code MAN10, you can get one of their Melbourne Minimal timepieces for just $95 and their New York Classic timepieces for just $140 (shown below).

The Tribeca ships with two bands... giving you two unique looks

...But this is important:

The 5TH's timeless watches are only available from the 5th - 10th of every month, on a limited-availability basis (meaning once they sell out, they're out (which usually happens in the first few days)).

If you're interested in getting a new timepiece, I can't recommend The 5TH enough (I wear the Tribeca every day)...

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The 10 Best Antiperspirants and Deodorants for Men https://www.mantelligence.com/best-antiperspirants-and-deodorants-for-men/ https://www.mantelligence.com/best-antiperspirants-and-deodorants-for-men/#comments Thu, 26 Mar 2015 03:21:52 +0000 http://www.mantelligence.com/?p=2259

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As guys, we sweat and we stink. That's why we need to know the best antiperspirants and deodorants for men, available in the market.

Bad body odor and excessive sweat are extremely irritating to deal with, but hugely important to take care of.

Why?

According to a dating poll done by Oxygen Media, 87% of women say that they're completely turned off by a date with bad body odor. So in short, if you have bad BO, you're going to sexually repel roughly 9 out of 10 women.

Luckily, deodorants and antiperspirants combine to make an $18 billion industry. This has led to the funding of some serious research and development and the creation of countless highly effective options to help curb your excessive sweating and keep you smelling fresh.

There are literally thousands of antiperspirants and deodorants for men to choose from so, to make things easier for you, I've put together two comprehensive lists:

  1. The 10 best deodorants for men (to keep you smelling good)
  2. The 10 best antiperspirants for men (to reduce excessive sweating)

These are the best of the best and one (or two) of them is a must for any guy who wants to smell good, sweat less and not sexually repel almost 9 out of 10 ladies.

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While the terms deodorant and antiperspirant are used almost interchangeably, they're actually two very different things.

Below, I'm going to explain the difference, but if you already know, could care less or just REALLY need something for your date tonight, click on one of the links in the table of contents.

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Deodorant vs Antiperspirant

Deodorants for Men

Sweat, on its own, is virtually scentless.

The bad odor, associated with sweating, actually comes from bacteria breaking down different components of your sweat.

Deodorant helps to reduce this unpleasant odor in two ways:

  1. It controls the growth of the bacteria that cause you to smell.
  2. It has a scented perfume to mask the smell from any bacteria it misses.

In short, wearing a deodorant won't reduce the amount that you sweat, but will reduce how much you stink.

Antiperspirants for Men

Where deodorants aim to reduce how much you smell, antiperspirants aim to reduce how much you sweat.

They have ingredients (typically aluminum salts) that when dissolved into your sweat, form a gel-like barrier over your armpits that considerably reduces how much you sweat.

While antiperspirants greatly reduce your sweating, they don't stop it completely. To fight the smell from the sweat that does get through the barrier, antiperspirants are often combined with deodorants.

If you're a guy who sweats a lot, an antiperspirant is a must.

How to Pick the Right Deodorant or Antiperspirant

If you do a Google search for "how to pick the right deodorant" you'll get countless guides offering you pointless tips.

When you're choosing the best deodorant for men who sweat a lot, one thing matters: does it work for you?

The bottom line is that everyone's body chemistry is different. This means that a deodorant or antiperspirant that's effective for one guy may not be for another.

So what do you do?

Try different deodorants and antiperspirants until you find one that does work for YOU. To increase the likelihood that your first pick is a good one, start with deodorants or antiperspirants that have been effective for a large number of people.

To determine this, look at how many reviews the deodorant/antiperspirant got and the overall rating it received from these reviews. If both of these are high, it means that for a large number of people that specific deodorant/antiperspirant has worked.

The 10 Best Deodorants for Men

As mentioned above, there's been a lot of research and development in the deodorant industry that's led to some incredible innovation.

One place where this innovation is most apparent is in natural deodorant for men. Because of this, you'll see that 8 out of the 10 deodorants on our list contain mostly natural ingredients and, unlike the antiperspirants, none contain aluminum.

10. Every Man Jack Cedarwood Deodorant

Cost:
$ @ Amazon.com

Scent:
Cedarwood

Application Type (Stick, Roll On or Aerosol Spray):
Stick

Aluminum %:
Aluminum Free

Every Man Jack Cedarwood is a solid deodorant that shines in its scent. Applying the Cedarwood deodorant gives you a subtle, very manly smell, that's somewhere between musky and woodsy.

It's completely natural, combining two antibacterial agents (lichen extract and rosemary) to control the growth of the bacteria that cause bad body odor.

It's a great choice if you're looking for a natural men's deodorant that not only works well but also smells great.

9. Old Spice High Endurance Pure Sport Deodorant

Cost:
$ (Pack of 4) @ Amazon.com

Scent:
Pure Sport

Application Type (Stick, Roll On or Aerosol Spray):
Stick

Aluminum %:
Aluminum Free

Old Spice is one of the most popular brands of deodorant for men and High Endurance Pure Sport is one of their top sellers.

While it doesn't contain aluminum, it's one of the unnatural deodorants on our list. This gives it a faint chemical smell, the same smell that you'll find in all big brand deodorants and antiperspirants like Old Spice, Degree, Speed Stick and Axe. The chemical scent is largely masked by Pure Sport's clean, fresh smelling fragrance.

Old Spice Pure Sport is a great pick for two main reasons:

  1. It works. This stuff will keep you smelling fresh all day.
  2. It's CHEAP. You can get it for as low as $2.50 a stick.

If you're just looking for something to get the job done, without breaking the bank, grab a pack of Old Spice Pure Sport.

8. Speed Stick Ocean Surf Deodorant

Cost:
$ (Pack of 6) @ Amazon.com

Scent:
Ocean Surf

Application Type (Stick, Roll On or Aerosol Spray):
Stick

Aluminum %:
Aluminum Free

Speed Stick Ocean Surf is very similar to the Old Spice deodorant above: it's cheap and it works.

Again, no aluminum but contains enough unnatural ingredients that you get that standard, big brand, chemical smell.

So why did Speed Stick Ocean Surf rank higher than Old Spice Pure Sport on our list of the best deodorants for men?

Where Old Spice's fragrance comes off as a little overpowering,  the Speed Stick's scent is remarkably well balanced. It's neither too strong nor too mild.

All that together makes it another great choice for something that is cheap and gets the job done. PLUS you get that fancy black "comfort" grip you see in the picture.

7. Brickell Men's Products Fresh Mint Natural Deodorant

Cost:
$ @ Amazon.com

Scent:
Fresh Mint

Application Type (Stick, Roll On or Aerosol Spray):
Roll

Aluminum %:
Aluminum Free

Like the Every Man Jack, Brickell is a great natural deodorant for men.

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6. Arm & Hammer Essentials Solid Deodorant

Cost:
$ (Pack of 4) @ Amazon.com

Scent:
Unscented

Application Type (Stick, Roll On or Aerosol Spray):
Stick

Aluminum %:
Aluminum Free

What?!

Arm and Hammer? As in the baking soda Arm and Hammer? Correct!

Instead of using aluminum, this deodorant combines Arm and Hammer's signature baking soda with natural plant extracts to fight and absorb your strongest BO.

This deodorant is all-around solid. It's unscented, isn't loaded with chemicals, and at just over $3 per stick, is very affordable.

5. Anthony Logistics Alcohol-Free Deodorant

Cost:
$ @ Amazon.com

Scent:
Masculine Citrus and Herb

Application Type (Stick, Roll On or Aerosol Spray):
Stick

Aluminum %:
Aluminum Free

Anthony Logistics has a great tagline printed on the front of their deodorant:

Objective: Be approachable.

Strategy: Herbal and botanical extracts deodorize, calendula calms.

It a clear and simple message that their deodorant actually delivers. As the tagline states, this deodorant combines herbal and botanical extracts to deodorize in place of traditional chemicals like aluminum.

It has a wonderful scent that's both natural and refreshing and will keep you smelling clean all day.

Anthony Logistics is a bit pricier, but you pay for what you get: it's made with high-quality ingredients, is highly effective, and has a great, very natural scent.

4. Truly's Natural Deodorant

Cost:
$ @ Amazon.com

Scent:
Mild Coconut

Application Type (Stick, Roll On or Aerosol Spray):
*Cream

Aluminum %:
Aluminum Free

Truly's is one of the best deodorants at combating bad body odor, and does so in a pretty unique way. The sugar that Truly's uses in their deodorant mixes with your sweat to create a solution that controls odor-causing bacteria.

It combines this sugar with coconut oil (which is a natural antibacterial) to keep you smelling fresh throughout the day.

At $8, it's reasonably priced and they even offer you a money-back guarantee if you're not satisfied.

Sounds like the total package, right? So, why isn't it higher on the list?

It has to do with the method of applying Truly's and my personal preferences. To apply Truly's you have to dip your fingers into the cream and then rub it on your armpits.

If you don't mind this, Truly's natural ingredients and price make it a great deodorant for men to try.

3.  Herban Cowboy Forest Maximum Protection Deodorant

Cost:
$ @ Amazon.com

Scent:
Woodsy

Application Type (Stick, Roll On or Aerosol Spray):
Stick

Aluminum %:
Aluminum Free

 

 

Cowboy offers you maximum protection all the while being a completely natural deodorant.

It's our third best deodorant for men for three reasons:

  • It works. There honestly isn't much information available on why it works, but, bottom line, it does. One application will keep you smelling fresh throughout the day.
  • It smells great. Herban Cowboy Forest has a masculine, woodsy scent. It smells natural (not a big brand chemical) and fresh and is incredibly well balanced.
  • It's cheap. $5 a stick is ridiculously affordable for a deodorant of this caliber.

Herban Cowboy is a solid, all-around great deodorant.

2. Baxter of California Citrus and Herbal-Musk Deodorant

Cost:
$ @ Amazon.com

Scent:
Citrus and Herb

Application Type (Stick, Roll On or Aerosol Spray):
Stick

Aluminum %:
Aluminum Free

 

The company Baxter of California's was created in 1965 and was one of the first brands to produce high-quality, man-specific grooming products.

One of their best-selling products is their Citrus and Herbal-Musk Deodorant.

It has an incredible scent that, as the name suggests, starts with citrus and finishes with a mild herbal musk. Unlike commercial deodorants, like Old Spice, this scent is truly unique and has no traces of that chemical smell.

This scent isn't overpowering but is quite strong. If you're looking for something similar to Baxter, that's more mildly scented, jump back to the Anthony Logistics Alcohol-Free.

The Baxter has a sensitive skin formula and is both alcohol and aluminum-free.

It's a highly effective deodorant that will not only fight your bad body odor but will ensure you smell awesome.

1. MenScience Androceuticals Advanced Deodorant

Cost:
$ @ Amazon.com

Scent:
Unscented

Application Type (Stick, Roll On or Aerosol Spray):
Stick

Aluminum %:
Aluminum Free

 

I'm a big fan of MenScience products and their deodorant is a big reason why.

They did an amazing job of creating a deodorant that's not only highly effective but also incredibly long-lasting; it will stop your bad body odor and will easily last ALL day.

It's also great for men with sensitive skin. They designed their deodorant with a unique hypoallergenic, aluminum-free and alcohol-free formula to make it completely non-irritating.

Plain and simple, if you're looking for the best deodorant for men out there, this is it.

The 10 Best Antiperspirants for Men

You'll notice that each of these antiperspirants contains at least some aluminum.

There are a lot of articles online stating that aluminum-based antiperspirants and deodorants are bad for your health, but, according to WebMD, "There is no real scientific evidence that aluminum or any of the other ingredients in these products pose any threat to human health."

I'm not a doctor, but I do trust WebMD's opinion.

Based on this, if you need something to reduce excessive sweating, I recommend you grab an antiperspirant and not worry about the aluminum percentage.

10. Degree Dry Cool Comfort Antiperspirant Deodorant

Cost:
$ (Pack of 6) @ Amazon.com

Scent:
Cool Comfort

Application Type (Stick, Roll On or Aerosol Spray):
Stick

Aluminum %:
18.2%

 

 

Degree Dry Cool Comfort is very comparable to Old Spice High Endurance (on our list of the best deodorants for men above). It's nothing fancy but, for most guys, gets the job done.

They used a non-irritating formula and added a nice, mild scent of citrus. Unfortunately, you can still smell that big brand, chemical smell underneath the citrus.

The best part about Degree Cool Comfort is that it's CHEAP. For just $3 per stick, you can grab an antiperspirant deodorant that gets the job done.

9. Dove Men+Care Extra Fresh Antiperspirant Deodorant

Cost:
$ (Pack of 2) @ Amazon.com

Scent:
Extra Fresh

Application Type (Stick, Roll On or Aerosol Spray):
Stick

Aluminum %:
15.2%

 

To start, this bad boy is a dermatologist recommended for skincare.

Dove added their moisturizing technology into their Men+Care bars making it one of the best antiperspirant deodorants for men with sensitive skin.

It has a mild, masculine scent that isn't too overpowering or a chemical smell.

It isn't strong enough to completely stop your sweating, but it will definitely reduce it.

Considering all of its benefits, and at only $3.50 a stick, Dove Men+Care is a solid choice for your antiperspirant deodorant.

8. Certain Dri Antiperspirant

Cost:
$ @ Amazon.com

Scent:
Unscented

Application Type (Stick, Roll On or Aerosol Spray):
Roll On

Aluminum %:
12%

Now we start getting into the big guns of sweat prevention.

If you're a guy who sweats a LOT Certain Dri is a great entry in the world of antiperspirants.

It's ONLY an antiperspirant and has no deodorizing agents. This means that while you're not sweating much at all, the sweat that does make it through the antiperspirant might smell.

If this happens to you when wearing Certain Dri (or any other standalone antiperspirant) just apply deodorant in the morning like you normally would.

So why shouldn't I just wear an antiperspirant deodorant combination?

Certain Dri is solely concerned with stopping your excessive sweat and it's good at it (and lasts  up to 72 hours)

If you're a guy that sweats a lot, this (and our #2 Sweat Block) are great choices.

7. Degree Dry Adventure Antiperspirant Deodorant Spray

Cost:
$ @ Amazon.com

Scent:
Adventure

Application Type (Stick, Roll On or Aerosol Spray):
Spray

Aluminum %:
23.3%

 

 

Degree is the most popular brand of deodorant for men on the market.

Their Dry Antiperspirant spray is highly effective and one of their most highly rated deodorant products on the market.

Unlike other sprays, it contains no alcohol or water so feels dry immediately after application.

It will curb your sweating for around 42 hours and has a mild masculine scent (that fades pretty quickly).

It also has a twist-to-close cap, making it ideal for travel.

6. Axe White Label Spray Antiperspirant Deodorant

Cost:
$ @ Amazon.com

Scent:
Night

Application Type (Stick, Roll On or Aerosol Spray):
Spray

Aluminum %:
23.3%

 

The Axe White Label is a nice change of pace from Axe's standard product line seemingly designed for high school locker rooms.

The White Label is quite similar to the Degree Dry Adventure Spray above:

  • It contains no alcohol or water so it goes on dry.
  • It has a twist-to-close cap making it great for travel.
  • It's designed to last for 48 hours.

So what makes it better?

It's fragrance.

The Axe White Label has a well-balanced cedarwood fragrance with a very little hint of the big-brand chemical smell.

This dry spray is an all-around solid antiperspirant and at only $10 is also affordable.

5. Recipe for Men Antiperspirant Deodorant

Cost:
$ @ Amazon.com

Scent:
Mildly Manly

Application Type (Stick, Roll On or Aerosol Spray):
Roll On

Aluminum %:
20%

 

Recipe for Men antiperspirant deodorant was developed in the harsh conditions of the Swedish mountains.

Unlike most antiperspirants, Recipe for Men doesn't block your body's ability to sweat. Instead, its advanced formula quickly absorbs sweat.

This same advanced formula also makes it also one of the better antiperspirant deodorants for guys with sensitive skin.

Recipe is our 5th best antiperspirant for men because of its unique, and effective, approach reducing armpit sweat, without blocking it.

4. Gillette Clinical Strength Antiperspirant Deodorant

Cost:
$ @ Amazon.com

Scent:
Fresh

Application Type (Stick, Roll On or Aerosol Spray):
Stick

Aluminum %:
20%

 

I know what you're thinking, how is a Gillette antiperspirant deodorant ranking up with all of these high-end brands?

Well, plain and simple, because it works REALLY well. What's more, it's only $10.

So why isn't it higher?

Well for two main reasons:

  1. The smell isn't the best. That's not to say that it's bad but it's comparable to an Old Spice or Degree (that bland smell with a hint of chemical).
  2. It's a clinical strength antiperspirant, and there are some serious chemicals in clinical strength antiperspirants that make them work so well. These chemicals can be rough on a lot of guy's skin.

If you don't mind those two gripes and are looking for something a little cheaper, the Gillette Clinical Strength Antiperspirant Deodorant will definitely get the job done.

3. Jack Black Pit Boss Antiperspirant Deodorant

Cost:
$ @ Amazon.com

Scent:
Well-Balanced Manliness

Application Type (Stick, Roll On or Aerosol Spray):
Stick

Aluminum %:
20%

 

 

If you're unfamiliar with Jack Black, they produce high-end men's skincare products (and no, they have nothing to do with Jack Black from Tenacious D).

The Pit Boss Antiperspirant Deodorant is a wonderful example of the quality of Jack Black's products:

  • Incredible smell. The pit boss gives you a quintessentially manly smell that's perfectly well balanced.
  • Lasting and effective antiperspirant. It significantly reduces your sweating and will last all day.
  • It's non-irritating. Its high-end formula is designed to be easier on your skin.

The deodorant is aptly named after a casino's pit boss, whose responsibility is to stay calm and confident while managing a casino pit.

With antiperspirant deodorants like the Jack Black and the Molton Brown (our best antiperspirant for men) you definitely get what you pay for: a superior smell, higher quality ingredients, and a product that does exactly what it's designed to.

2. SweatBlock Clinical Strength Antiperspirant

Cost:
$ @ Amazon.com

Scent:
Unscented

Application Type (Stick, Roll On or Aerosol Spray):
*Wipe

Aluminum %:
14%

SweatBlock is far and away from the best antiperspirant for men who excessively sweat.

It's doctor recommended and one application lasts up to seven days.

SweatBlock is the best-selling antiperspirant in the world for one reason: it works. Need proof? Read through one of the 1,500+ 5 star reviews it has on Amazon.

SweatBlock even puts their money where their mouth is and gives you a 30 day, money-back guarantee.

If you're a guy who sweats a lot, I can't recommend SweatBlock enough.

1.  Molton Brown Re-Charge Black Pepper Antiperspirant Deodorant

Cost:
$ @ Amazon.com

Scent:
Black Peppercorn

Application Type (Stick, Roll On or Aerosol Spray):
Stick

Aluminum %:
19.29%

 

 

Drumroll please.... The award for our best antiperspirant for men goes to the Molton Brown Re-Charge Black Pepper Stick.

The Molton Brown perfectly combines everything a man needs in an antiperspirant deodorant: masculine fragrance, effective formula, and non-irritating ingredients:

  • Masculine fragrance. The Molton Brown combines black peppercorn, bergamot (type of citrus) and oakmoss to create a one-of-a-kind smell. To put this unique smell in one word: masculine. What's more, the fragrance is remarkably well balanced. Its smell is mild, but noticeable.
  • Keeps you dry. Similar to the Jack Black, this is a high-end product that's designed not only to fight your bad body odor but also to keep you dry.
  • Non-irritating. Molton Brown added andiroba tree oil to their deodorant which leaves your skin feeling soft, refreshed, and not the least bit irritating.

The Molton Brown is not only effective but it's the best smelling antiperspirant or deodorant for men on the market.

With this deodorant more than any other, you get what you pay for. You get the best smell, the highest quality ingredients, and superior sweat and odor control.

In Conclusion

Remember, men with bad body odor sexually repel almost 9 out of 10 women.

With the incredible best antiperspirants and deodorants for men on the market, there's no excuse to smell bad or excessively sweat.

If you want to smell good, stop sweating or both, grab one of Mantelligence's recommended best men's antiperspirants or deodorants for men.

If you have any questions or need help choosing a deodorant, leave a comment below!Deodorant vs Antiperspirant

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