Robin Sutherns | Jun 14, 2022 | 0
11 Flirting Tips Every Guy Needs To Know
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Are you in need of some flirting tips to increase your engagement skills with women?
Or maybe you don’t know how to flirt with a girl so you constantly ask yourself questions like “How do I approach her?”, “What do I say?”, and “How do I flirt without being pushy?”.
If you ask most guys for flirting advice they’ll tell you about undisguised displays of masculinity, pickup lines and other over hyped techniques displayed in the media.
On the other hand, if you ask a female she’ll indicate that it takes respect, engaging conversation and confidence.
So the next time you attempt to flirt, remember things from the female perspective and you’ll be well on your way to making a lasting impression.
The truth is, all females are not the same, however, studies and experts suggest that they have similar psychology. Therefore, there would not be a standard or strict formula to follow when flirting but there are some proven tactics that work.
11 Flirting Tips Proven to Work On Women
So... to help you flirt with beautiful women, we have 11 highly-effective flirting tricks + 1 HUGE flirting mistake that you NEED to avoid.
Here are 11 flirting tips proven to work on women:
11. Point Your Feet Towards Her
While you’re flirting, there are actually two conversations happening, one with words and one with body language. And in order for flirting to really work, the conversations need to both be saying that you want to be there with her.
So if you want to really show a girl that you think she’s fun and interesting, make sure your feet along with your body are pointed towards her, and not anyone else.
10. Meet Her Glance... Then Look Away?
Before you approach a girl, you obviously don’t want to come off as nervous/intimidated. And one of the fastest ways to make a girl think that you are, is to quickly look away, after making eye contact. But luckily, there’s an easy fix and the results to this simple trick, are amazing.
Before you let your eyes dart off, acknowledge her gaze for just a second... then look somewhere else. It may sound too good to be true, but there may be nothing that you can more readily do to put a girl at ease than that.
9. Don’t Turn Her Off With Your Posture
When you’re flirting, would you rather seem tired and shy? Or open and full of energy?
Well, most girls like flirting with a guy who shows some signs of life. And one of the simplest ways to do that is to exercise good posture. So if you want a way to immediately exude confidence, do what your parents always told you and just try standing or sitting up straight.
8. Leverage Common Ground
Whether it’s a mutual friend, where you grew up, or where you went to school, finding something in common about your lives is an instant conversation starter.
While having a more personal and unique thing in common is better, if you’re not that lucky, don’t worry any other interest you both love (or hate) can just as easily get the conversation going.
7. Don’t Take Yourself (or Dating) Too Seriously
If you want to make sure flirting is the fun experience it’s meant to be, the secret is to not take yourself too seriously. Because even if it might not feel like it, there’s a great chance that the girl you’re flirting with is just as nervous as you are. So to keep things from getting too awkward and to show her that she can relax, don't be afraid to laugh at yourself.
6. Touch Her Lightly... In These Key Areas
First of all, unwanted touching is probably the fastest way to ruin things with a girl. But... if you respect her boundaries, physical contact can actually put her at ease.
So, how can you touch a woman in a way that shows you’re not a creep? Well, until she makes it clear that’s what she’s looking for, our advice is to just keep it friendly. A light touch on the arm or shoulder shows her that you’re clearly interested.
5. Play Off of The Signals She’s Sending You
At any given time, a woman you’re flirting with will be sending you all kinds of signals. Use these to your advantage.
For example, if she breaks the ‘touch barrier’, by touching your arm, hand, or leg, then it’s more likely that she wants you to do the same.
4. Flirt with Your Hobbies and Skills
Even though most women don’t want their guys to be a big show-off, that doesn’t mean they don’t like seeing their man do what he does best.
So whether it’s cooking, fixing motorcycles, or playing volleyball, confidently showcasing your talents by bringing her into that part of your world of list of hobbies is one of those all important ways to let your actions do the flirting for you.
3. Show Her You Think of Her As More Than Just a Friend
It might surprise you to learn that unless it’s pretty obvious, women don’t always know if a guy is actually into them.
So if you’re actually flirting, you may want to make it clear that you see her as more than just a friend. And it doesn’t take much. Something as quick as opening the car door for her, or remembering something she said a while back, are easy ways to drop a hint.
2. Tease Her Playfully About What Makes Her Special
One of the best ways to take a conversation from friendly to flirty, is to introduce a little bit of playful teasing into the mix.
Just one flirting hack to remember, the key to playful teasing is to keep it from crossing the line into the friend zone. And the best way to do that? Gently poke fun at her about the special quirks that make her who she is.
1. Dress Well and Don’t Smell
Finally, if you want to get off on the right foot with a girl you’re flirting with, the easiest thing you can do is avoid looking like a total slacker.
Now, most women understand that you can’t always look (or smell) your best, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try as much as possible. One flirting technique to remember is that the key to successful flirting is starting the day off with a shower and a fresh set of clothes.
The Number 1 Flirting Tip Almost Guaranteed to Backfire
The number 1 thing you definitely don’t want to get caught doing... is “negging” a girl you want to like you. And guys, that doesn’t mean “just don’t get caught doing it.” What it really means, is that negging is such a transparent and sleazy tactic, that there’s virtually no chance that it’ll go anywhere meaningful.
So unless you want to immediately risk losing any shot you have with a girl. Take the high road, be confident and don’t try to bring her down with negging.
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Utilize these flirting tips and you’ll be more confident when engaging with any girl. Knowing how to flirt with a girl could be the difference between building a solid connecting and “bombing” your initial interaction.
Mainstream media encourages men to use overt displays of masculinity, cheesy pick up lines, and other techniques to flirt with women. Try your best not to be misled by the media’s definition of flirting.
Focus on knowing what a female wants and expects - respect, engaging conversation and confidence - and you’ll be ahead of most men.
Also, remember these flirting tips that we shared with you and you’ll be much more likely to make a great impression and even secure a date with the girl you’re interested in.