Do you want to make small talk with your crush? You need to know the 20 questions to ask a girl.

I'm an expert in non-traditional games, like icebreakers, and my work has been featured on RestNova. Sometimes, we need help to know what questions to ask a girl, especially if we do not know how to reach out. I can give you the best questions to ask that are good conversation starters.

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Ultimate List Of 20 Questions to Ask a Girl to Know Her Better

When you attempt to start small talk with someone you like, you need to know the good questions to ask a girl. Throwing out just a random question sometimes does not work and may lead to an awkward silence. We'll give you the best 20 questions to ask a girl so you can have an interesting conversation.

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5 Funny Things to Ask a Girl Guaranteed to Develop Rapport With Her

Ask a girl what characteristics she is looking for in a guy, and one of her answers will be a sense of humor. A simple funny remark can lead to a romantic relationship if you play your cards right. Know the right funny get to know you questions to have a meaningful conversation.

1. What would be the first thing you would do if you woke up tomorrow as a guy?

That is a good question to ask on a date night. If she answers quickly, then she might already have imagined this scenario. Maybe she wants to do something that only a guy can.

2. Where do you stand in the pineapple on pizza debate?

Oh yes, some folks find pineapple on pizza the craziest thing. If she says she doesn't mind because pizza is pizza, that's my girl! There's nothing wrong with being different or experimental. If she hasn't tried Hawaiian pizza yet, maybe this is the time!

3. If you were a vegetable, what would you be and why?

This funny question will reveal how she sees herself. It can be a good topic for conversation because you can either agree or disagree with her answer. Better yet, answer the question yourself, and see if you'll make a good salad combo.

4. What is the weirdest food combination people eat that you just can't stand?

Her answer may not be the weirdest thing you expect, but we all have our preferences. Some foods are just better when eaten by themselves. But to make things more fun, why not ask her to try your favorite food combination? Maybe, it will be her favorite too.

5. What would your reality TV show intro be?

Walk her through her favorite childhood memory. Surely, she had stood in front of a mirror, holding a hairbrush and pretending to be on TV. But now, she's all grown up; she had all those years to think about her TV show intro.

5 Interesting Facts About Her That May Surprise You

A great conversation leaves a good impression. And what is the best way to get to know someone? By asking the right good questions. Avoid that awkward silence with these interesting questions to ask a girl.

6. What are you most passionate about right now?

This a great question to start your conversation. Ask her something she is passionate about to make her open up to you. It is a personal question, so make sure you are all ears since her answer may say a lot about her personality and principle.

7. What's your biggest deal-breaker in a relationship?

This is one of my favorite date questions. It's important to know what she dislikes so you can avoid it, especially if you are trying to woo her. Take it as an important lesson as well, to make sure that your relationship with her will work out.

8. If you could pick a new first name, what would it be?

Now that's a fun question. As a child, I remember asking my friends to call me by a different name.

I wonder, what made her choose that name?

9. Who do you wish you could trade lives with?

Trade lives with a billionaire? Hmm, I can imagine all the things that I can do.

Kidding aside, what thing does that person has that made her want to trade lives with? Maybe it is something you can give or do for her.

10. How do you decompress after a stressful day?

This is part of the 20 questions to ask a girl because her answer could be something you could do together. If she likes doing outdoor activities to decompress, then maybe you could join her. Take note of her answer and surprise her with her favorite decompressing activity when you feel that she is kind of stressed lately.

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5 Flirty Ice Breakers That Will Make Her Feel Attracted to You

Flirty moves are one of the things that makes a woman attracted to a guy. Being flirty adds a little spice to your conversation and budding relationship. But you need to know the right flirty questions to ask a girl because it might backfire on you if it's too much.

11. What is your wildest fantasy?

Explore her wild side with this flirty question. The wildest fantasy does not have to be always sexual. It could be something fun, crazy, or out-of-this-world.

12. What's your guilty pleasure?

Most of us have our guilty pleasures. Either taking a bunch of selfies or filling the fridge with chocolates. It's good to have this one thing that we look forward to after a hard day's work.

13. Do you believe in soulmates?

There we go with the romantic questions. Is she a hopeless or hopeful romantic? If she does, then ask her if she has already met her soulmate. Could it be the one sitting in front of her right now?

14. What's your most ridiculous turn off?

Just a quick self-check to ensure you don't have it or don't do it. You would not want to ruin your chance of being happy with the girl of your dreams.

15. Do you ever make the first move?

Fortune favors the bold. I admire women who know what they want and are not afraid to get it, even if they bend the norms. Tell her that, and you might encourage her to make the first move.

5 Things to Ask Her Over Text to Show Your Interest in Her

Not seeing eye to eye? It's okay; you can still play the 20 questions game to ask a girl. There are other ways to communicate with her, like chatting, video calls, or simply texting. Know the best questions to ask a girl over text and feel her smiling on the other side.

16. What was the last crazy adventure you went on?

It might be crazy, but that made it memorable for her. This will tell you the stuff that she likes to do. Maybe you can plan your next adventure with her.

17. What's on the top of your bucket list right now?

This is an interesting question because not all of us have a bucket list. Wouldn't it be intriguing to know someone's top item on their list? Hmm, maybe I should start my own list.

18. If you could ask me anything, what would it be?

That's the right question to ask her. She may want to ask you about something but hesitate to blurt it out. Saying this will give her the encouragement she needs.

19. What TV show are you binging right now?

If she's doing 'Netflix and Chill' right now, watch the same tv show she's binging on. You can talk about your favorite part or scenes of the show later. She'll appreciate that you are trying the shows or things she is interested in.

20. What dish you would never be able to refuse?

Learn her favorite dish and surprise her on your next meet-up! You will surely get a lot of brownie points. Putting effort into something with her in mind is definitely sweeter than any gift you can buy.

Downloadable and Printable List of Questions To Ask A Girl

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How to Know Someone on a Deeper Level

Some people find getting to know someone easy and natural. But for some people who cannot even start a conversation, we'll give you some tips. It should be easy to get to know someone on a deeper level if you follow these steps.

#1 Ask questions that further a conversation.

Ask questions that will lead her to open up to you, mostly open-ended questions. Like, how does she spend her holidays? If she talks about her family, she will discuss her relationship with them. You can ask deep questions from her answers to get to know her more, such as her favorite childhood memory.

#2 Actively listen to their answers.

Show her that you are interested and listening to her answers. Never interrupt her when talking or try to lead her to her a specific answer. Maintain eye contact and be mindful of your body language. When she sees that you are perceptive, she'll be more likely to share details about her life.

#3 Be honest.

Communication is a two-way street. Don't let her do all the talking because this is not an interview. Share your own thoughts and experiences as well. Be honest with your answers, and always be yourself.

Frequently Asked Questions

Now that we've enumerated the 20 questions to ask a girl, I know that it also made up more questions in your mind. No worries, we'll get on to them.

How will I know if she is answering my questions honestly?

She looks directly into your eyes, and if she does not take so much time answering your question.

It might take a little time to make up a story. If the story is not cohesive with her other answers, she might not be totally honest with you.

Do girls like being asked a lot of questions?

Yes, but sensible questions. Most women like it when a guy takes an interest not only in their appearance but also in their personality. So ask them questions to get to know them, listen to their answers, and share your own thoughts. That will make it a meaningful conversation.

When is the right time to ask a girl things about herself?

The right time to ask a girl or make a conversation is when she is not distracted. Don't ask her questions when she is preoccupied or when there's a chance your small talk may be cut short.

How can I make sure she's comfortable with the questions I'm asking?

When she is enthusiastically answering your questions and not avoiding them, then just continue that path. Avoid asking too personal questions, especially on a first date, as it may be too awkward. Stay with the safe and open questions first, and let them find their way to a more deep conversation.

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In Conclusion

You've reached the end of 20 questions to ask a girlWe have provided you with a guide, but you still have to follow your gut.

Be yourself because that is the most important thing when trying to get to know someone.